Many women believe that sex is what interests a man more than anything else. “They only have one thing on their mind!” - they repeat reproachfully, as if forgetting that this activity can be enjoyable for both partners. It is quite obvious that a woman gets only fifty percent of the pleasure. Yes, it is so inherent in nature that for a woman sex is a dessert, but for a man it is the main dish on the menu. So why not just take this as a basis to be able to bring joy to your partner and yourself? Why does the understanding that sex is almost a basic instinct for the male half of the world's population make its female half spin?

After all, successful sex, which brings a lot of pleasure to both lovers, is literally a source of pride for men. If a session of sexual pleasures does not bring the expected results, then what happened can even cause significant damage to male self-esteem. It is logical to assume that you should know more about what men like in bed, so that you can extract a lot of benefits from this for yourself and your partner. To get insane pleasure from intimacy yourself, to give similar sensations to a man and to become a sex goddess in his eyes - is such a prospect bad?

What attracts men in sex

To begin with, calmly accept the information that, unlike us, sex for them may not be a consequence or continuation of love. There is no need to get upset about this and roll your eyes indignantly. Men are built differently, differently than we are. For them, this activity is quite comparable with other needs of the body. I wanted to satisfy my hunger - I ate. Both your favorite food and just ordinary food are suitable for this. In relationships, girls prioritize communication, a common language with their loved ones, and spiritual intimacy. For men, this is physical intimacy, and then everything else. And in order to find common ground, you need to learn to speak your partner’s language.

Let us study what interests our passionate males so much, what attracts them to us at the behest of sex. After all, when we find ourselves in bed with a guy for whom we ourselves will have tender feelings, we will be all the more pleased to make an unforgettable impression on him in this very bed. What do men want from any, indeed from every woman with whom they would like to have intimacy? And if this woman is loved, then what kind of sex do they imagine is ideal in this case? Read on to find out everything!

He's glad to see you (taken literally)

Therefore, his heart will start pounding like crazy if you suddenly perform a passionate striptease in front of him. You can undress beautifully while dancing, not only yourself. Nobody forbids you to beautifully free a man from his clothes either. First, of course, you will need to practice in his absence in order to feel confident in your movements and not be afraid of looking funny or unnatural. But even without the music above, the performance will certainly be a resounding success with the audience. The gentleman will remember such a white dance for a long time.

Men adore women in black lace lingerie. And in red. And in white. With frills. Everything is clear with them: they like girls in beautiful underwear. Put it on quickly so that he wants to rip it off you in a fit of sudden passion! Don't forget the stockings. The sight of a garter flashing by chance (as if) will definitely direct a man’s thoughts in only one direction. And even the most ordinary sex will become unusual for him. Take the time to buy yourself more lace splendor and drive your man crazy with its beauty on your own body.

The dance is done, the underwear is torn off, but you can keep the high-heeled shoes. Men are turned on by women in stiletto heels. Does this shock you? Come on, now is not the time to think about anything other than crazy sex. More self-confidence - let the man be pleasantly shocked by your relaxedness. Many of them dream of being in bed with a porn star, so now you can fulfill his dream on your own.

Don't turn off the lights. If you still want to give the atmosphere a little more intimacy, you can mute it. But stop indulging in lovemaking in complete darkness, hiding under the covers, as if you were some kind of criminals or partisans. Let him enjoy the process visually as well. Let him see how your skin becomes covered with beads of sweat, watch how your pupils dilate with excitement. This will make it even easier for him to focus on your reaction in his actions. Admire what is happening and have fun at the same time.

Let's play big

You are already starting to guess what we are going to talk about now, right? That's right, about toys for adults. But not only about them. About games too. Men are not averse to acting out scenes on the bed of love; they lose their acting talent, which they are happy to realize not on stage, but in the bedroom. Criminal and policeman. Slave and master. Nurse and patient. Mistress and her humble servant. A classic of the genre - a plumber and a housewife. Such a variety of productions will fully quench not only his passion for the flesh, but also the thirst for recognition of his creative talents.

When it comes to sex toys, men’s opinions gradually diverge in different directions. The most appreciated are the funny fur handcuffs with which you can affectionately chain him to your bed in the literal sense. Let him not count on mercy - now he is in your complete power! Or let yourself be chained to her, surrendering to his good will. Let him do whatever he wants with you - you’re not at all against it, right?

If you are still against such a game, then turn on your hot man by imitating resistance. Play hard to get, spraying his passion more and more, so that at some point you will submit and melt in his arms. He is probably already beside himself with happiness that his bed brought him together with such an unusual girl. In it, passion, openness, initiative, invention and sexuality are combined so masterfully that he simply has no words. Even if you break up (which, of course, won’t happen), believe me, he definitely won’t be able to forget you.

Classics of the genre, or give some variety

Sex itself is just that main course. He is certainly wonderful. But there is also oral sex. And even more than that: let’s not be afraid of this word, anal sex. Here, each girl chooses for herself whether she is ready to surprise her beloved with a throat blowjob technique or some other. Or buy a lubricant with a fruity taste that he likes in order to indulge in love from the “back door”. When he wants to know your attitude to the last option of physical intimacy, then be sure to check with your lover what he exactly wants. Perhaps he does not have your sights set on your beautiful ass, but invites you to give him a prostate massage. Many men have discovered incredible sensations thanks to him.

A special word should be said that cunnilingus is also a tasty dish for most men. Do not deny yourself and your loved one the opportunity to fully enjoy your meal! Just don't forget to take care to put your bikini area on top alert. Seeing an unusual haircut or tattoo below your stomach, he will definitely be pleasantly surprised by your creativity. But from untouched virgin soil you may well get an aesthetic shock.

Food. Really just food

Take food to bed with you. Light, it can be consumed during the process: fruits, chocolate, ice cream. Wine or champagne will also be a nice addition to the company. If you have a long sexual marathon ahead of you, then prepare thoroughly. In order not to be separated from your loved one for a long time, place juice, a pack of cookies, or some snacks next to the springboard of love. After finishing one session, you can have a quick snack to replenish your strength and start again.

Fast or slow

We will talk about how to quickly begin the sacred rite and how to behave during it. You can't guess here. Both options must be used. Or rather, alternate. Men equally love the idea of ​​having quick sex without even taking off their clothes and having a quick orgasm. They are also driven crazy by the long, piercingly sensual foreplay, after which comes the turn of sex itself, with slow mesmerizing movements, during which you can bring your partner to the tenth orgasm.

Girl, are you feeling bad?

Don't make your guy agonize over whether you like what's happening or not. Move, smile, make sounds. Let him know that you are actively involved and enjoying the process just as much as he is. There is no need to change positions every two or three seconds and perform the roulades of an opera diva, but a girl lying motionless with a stony or imperturbable face can confuse any guy. Take the initiative, change the rhythm, voice how good you feel - your knight, confident that you like everything that is happening, will give his all even more.

Place

It matters not only how you have sex, but also where you perform the act of love. If this is a bedroom, then try making love in front of a mirror. The sight of your own hot bodies intertwined in a passionate embrace makes an indelible impression. Bed linen: be creative in your choice. Animal colors, Japanese characters, black. Texture is also important. Have sex on silk sheets instead of the usual calico. Move from the bedroom to the bath. From apartment to car. Leave home for nature. Make love on the roof of your own house, in its elevator - even in long-explored territory there are so many secluded corners for privacy! Change your location from time to time by moving in space or changing interior details.

Reading develops our horizons

This means that one should read the main book of all times and peoples dedicated to physical love between a man and a woman. The unsurpassed Kama Sutra contains a lot of valuable information about what position to choose for making love. So read, memorize and apply. Improve your techniques and methods. It is possible that not all methods will seem interesting or feasible to you, but among the provided alternatives there is always something to choose from.

Who started it first?

Men like it when the initiative always comes from him. But not everything is so strict here. Give the first sign by seducing him and flirting that you want sex. If you have an orgasm first, he will also be extremely pleased. At the same time, the pleasure he receives will also please him a lot. Therefore, do not restrain yourself if you suddenly get the idea to initiate intimacy. He will support you and understand.

After everything that happened to us

After the violent passion has been quenched, you want to take a bath to freshen up. Don't do this too hastily, literally jumping off or crawling out from under your partner. In any case, you will take water procedures, perhaps even together, but lie next to them for at least a few minutes. At this time, it is recommended to tell your Casanova about the pleasure you received. Even the most brutal males love to relax in bed, feeling the warmth of the body of a woman nearby, whom he has just driven into a frenzy. So give them this feeling.

Now we know all about it

Sex is a practical thing. We are best at those actions in which we constantly practice. So, don’t waste time and start learning what will drive your partner crazy through experience. The main thing that absolutely all men love about sex is sex itself. Therefore, do not hesitate too much, without procrastinating, take your passionate gentleman into the alcoves and begin a session of practical sexology. If a woman is loved by a man, then by making love to her, he gets much more emotions and pleasure than from just sex. If you are not ready to believe us, ask your loved one, he will definitely confirm this to you.

What should a woman do in bed? This question probably worries most young girls who have only recently begun to be sexually active.

1. Do not be shy.

Women, wise with experience and multiple relationships, at a certain point come to one simple conclusion: a woman’s behavior in bed should be natural. Many girls, in order not to offend their partner, scream heart-rendingly and cling to the sheets, without actually experiencing sensations even close to euphoria. This is how they brazenly deceive not only their partner, but also themselves.

Try not to forget, while in the arms of a man, that you are, after all, a lover, and not an actress playing a cheap scene on the stage. Behind all these insincere gasps, sighs and other tricks, you, having played too much, can shift all the accents and remain dissatisfied. There is only one spectator in bed who wants you to feel good, so playing to the public is more than appropriate.
But you can’t remain silent either. Even if you don't get complete release, the process of making love usually brings at least pleasant sensations, so sighs and brief praise of the man's actions are only welcome.

What should a woman do in bed? Through actions and movements, a woman should show her interest in what is happening. The biggest mistake is to pretend to be dead. A man should under no circumstances feel your indifference. The policy: “you eat, and I’ll sleep for now” is perceived by men as the highest degree of insult. Therefore, a woman’s task in bed is to behave no less active than a man.

Be proactive and try to give your partner extra pleasure. Between sexual acts, be gentle and try to arouse his next surge of sexual desire. A woman in bed needs to be relaxed and forget about her complexes.

And to achieve this, believe me, is not so difficult. There are several ways to awaken sexuality in a man...

Do I love you any?

The quality of sexual relationships depends not only on the temperament and skill of the partners. As they say, a man chooses only among those women who made him understand - act! How? With a smile, a look, a gesture and even bright provocative makeup. Representatives of the stronger sex are ready to accept any of your even unconscious signs as an invitation. But even if you charm a man, don’t relax! Jumping into bed does not mean the beginning of a long love story. You also need to keep the man, make him constantly drawn to you. This means that your intimate relationship should give him pleasure, and not strain, irritate, or cool him. However, any woman is simply obliged to have in her arsenal a couple of tricks that allow her to keep her partner firmly “on the hook.”

Be beautiful. It is known that a man “loves with his eyes.” This means that he should see you as an ideal woman - well-groomed and beautiful. Even if you are not in shape (tired, sick, stressed, etc.), meet your partner fully prepared. No unkempt or unwashed hair, carelessly pinned up or sloppily loose. Don’t be too lazy to do at least a semblance of a hairstyle, or better yet, style your hair in a more seductive way. Makeup is fresh, preferably discreet (you can accent your lips a little with lipstick). Manicure and pedicure are perfect, no chipped polish or dirty nails. And of course, remove all unnecessary hair on your body (only 3% of men consider overgrown armpits sexy).

Believe me, the male gaze notices even such seemingly trifles. Sloppiness repels a man - and sometimes he cannot really explain why he didn’t like an intimate evening with you, just the feeling “this woman is somehow not good” will remain in his memory for a long time...

Do you want to please your man in bed?

Add eroticism! 80% of the stronger sex is aroused by the visual image of a “female temptress.” Moreover, for this it is not at all necessary to purchase a super short peignoir. “The furious mini,” according to psychologists, is by no means in first place in the matter of seduction. It turns out that most men lose their minds over... maxi. But! Definitely with a long slit in the front, as if by chance exposing women’s legs. This “intrigue” has a strong stimulating effect.

But, of course, it is advisable to choose underwear that exposes your charms as much as possible. Color - optional. But as experts again suggest, men consider traditional red to be the most exciting color.

Seductive scents. This time-tested remedy is used by the vast majority of women. Fruity smells, especially with a citrus note, attract men quite strongly, clouding their heads with passion. However, when preparing for an intimate date, do not overdo it with scents. Think about the prose of life: what if your beloved suffers from some kind of bronchopulmonary ailment? An attack of illness provoked by a pungent odor will easily nullify all your efforts to be as desirable as possible.

In addition, they claim that the natural smell of a clean body excites men even more than the smells of perfumes, aromatic oils, etc.

Prepare a drink of passion. Seducing a man with the help of a “love potion” has been known since ancient times. If you want to inflame your loved one’s passion, treat him, for example, to aromatic tea with thyme (thyme) or coffee with cinnamon. You can taste these active “passion provocateurs” right in bed.

Attention! Some herbs can be strong and can cause headaches or allergies in your partner. There will be no time for passion...

Be an affectionate cat. It is a mistake to think that men only want sex. According to experts, representatives of the stronger sex no less than women love to be stroked, caressed, and hugged. Therefore, try offering your loved one a massage (you can also have an erotic one). Use special stimulating creams, aromatic oils, and put beautiful linens on the bed. It is unlikely that your man will refuse such a tempting offer. Massage in general ideally relieves tension and stress, and in this case it will certainly increase the sensuality of the relationship...

Take the initiative. The vast majority of women believe that the man is responsible for the quality of their sexual life. And representatives of the fair half submit to his whims and demands. Most often this happens, but experts say: men secretly expect women to take the initiative in intimate relationships. For them, this is the best proof that they are loved and desired. However, remember - be seductive, and not promiscuous-sexual, otherwise a man may have a thought: how many partners have you had if you are so active and skillful in the love game? And it’s unlikely that this will count as a plus for you...

Don't lead. Some women, having heard enough advice from sexologists that a man needs to be told exactly how to please you, take this literally. The loved one is bombarded with almost every minute instructions - do this and that, don’t do that, touch here, don’t touch that. The man begins to feel like a kind of inexperienced puppy, with only one desire brewing in his head - to quickly get away from the trainer. Therefore, leave all possible wishes for later - even if your intimate meeting did not bring you the expected pleasure. The process of matching partners can be quite lengthy - and there is nothing abnormal about that.

React. The game of love is a game of partners, do not forget about it. No man will like it if his beloved shows herself to be an “insensitive log” in this game. By the way, this is one of the most common reasons for a man to cool off after a couple of intimate encounters. “Noise” accompaniment of the process is very desirable - but, again, without fanaticism. Too loud moans, too noisy breathing can give a man a reason to doubt the truth of the feelings you are experiencing. And mistrust does not help inflame passion.

Don't disturb your partner. Any woman loves to talk. However, in bed you shouldn’t bore your partner with conversations, even if you really want to tell him something or find out something from him. A man tuned in to a love game simply will not be able to join the conversation. At best, he will mutter something unintelligible, and at worst, he will lose interest in the process. This is how representatives of the stronger sex work - at the moment they can only do one thing.

Be grateful. Many men expect your assessment of their sexual prowess - even if they don't admit it. By the way, many of them regard the partner’s flight as soon as the embrace is released and into the shower as an indirect recognition of your displeasure. Sexologists say that a man is very pleased when he is kissed, hugged, and words of gratitude are whispered in his ear for moments of experienced passion. So don't make your lover worry, especially if your goal is to please his man in bed. Believe me, he will certainly appreciate it - and you will be the most desirable and seductive for him.

Greetings, friends!

Today the topic of the article is for married ladies and not only, or rather everything for our beloved men...

Any woman wants to be desired and unique for her husband and sooner or later asks this question -

A passionate look and a few skillful movements can warm up a fading intimate relationship in a couple.

Men are hunters by nature, and they constantly feel the need for new sensations. Moreover, their behavior directly depends on whether this need is satisfied or not.

To prevent your beloved spouse from starting to look for a new relationship on the side, do not forget to arrange a couple of days of “innovations” for him from time to time in your marital bedroom. In this article, we invite you to consider some effective tips on how to surprise your partner in bed.

Exciting lace lingerie, a romantic dinner by candlelight and various role-playing games in bed, if you have already tried all this, then you are probably scratching your head, what else can you surprise your loved one with this coming weekend?

We invite you to try seven simple methods with your partner, for which you don’t need any attributes from a sex shop, but only the desire to breathe new vitality into your sex life and cause your loved one to be surprised by your inner volcano of passion. You will be able to conquer and make your spouse fall in love with you again, but to do this you will need to get rid of stereotypes and hypocrisy in all matters relating to sex. Because The methods that we bring to your attention are suitable only for women who are confident and liberated in themselves.

So, let's move on to the main part:

1. Play of imagination.

Just one male glance at a naked female breast can greatly excite him and play out his fantasy.

Often, a man caresses a woman's breasts to arouse and prepare the woman for sex. It's time to change this situation, use your breasts to please your lover.

To do this, you can apply cream or oil to your breasts and arrange a mini-show, stroking yourself, while your husband should watch you at this moment, but not touch you with his hands (you can use his lips or penis).

Then invite him to ride you so that his manhood is near the hollow of your chest. If you are not curvy, you can support your breasts with your hands, creating a push-up effect.

The spouse can begin to make back-and-forth movements in the cleavage, and you, in turn, can regulate the intensity of the movement by squeezing or loosening the chest with your hands.

2. Private dance

The anticipation of this event will captivate you no less than the action itself.

Surprise your beloved husband with a private dance that will smoothly turn into Erotic massage and continuation.

To produce the maximum effect, you need your spouse to be dressed, and you to be in a semi-undressed state, and you can start by sitting him on a chair or sofa, turning on the music and smoothly moving towards him to get rid of a couple of your things.

Gradually begin to undress your spouse.

When you completely undress your beloved, ask him to lie down on the bed and continue caressing him, but in the role of an erotic massage.

To sharpen the sensation, you can tie his hands to the legs of the bed, in which case your husband will experience a more vivid sensation and an insane desire to touch you, because you have deprived him of this opportunity.

If this is not possible, then you can tie it to him so that he does not know what and in what place you are touching him, this will increase his sensitivity, and he will certainly be delighted.

3. Use cold

Ice cream or fruit ice are ideal for this method.

Carefully, barely touching the ice cream, draw a route on your loved one’s body. It is best to start from the chest, slowly descending, first to the stomach, then to the genitals, and you can finish your journey on the inner thighs. Then go all this way, but with your tongue.

4. Touches of silk

Silk is the most suitable material to bring new exciting sensations.

Take a scarf, gloves and start being surprised and experiencing new erotic sensations.

The scarf can be used according to your preferences, as in the previous method, you can blindfold the eyes or hands of your loved one. Without taking off your gloves yourself, start giving your husband , without neglecting his most erogenous places: the inner thighs, penis, testicles.

The ideal ending to the massage would be to connect your palms on your husband’s penis and use quick sliding movements to bring him to orgasm, while your husband will experience indescribable pleasure, as if the gentle wings of a butterfly are touching him. With this you can show him all your tenderness and demonstrate your limitless imagination.

5. Champagne bath

This method is best used on weekends or during vacations, when your husband is not occupied with thoughts about work and it is easier for him to relax.

Add champagne to water and pour into glasses. Invite your husband to take a bath and have a drink. Take one sip of champagne yourself, but do not swallow it, it should remain in your mouth.

Bend over to your husband, place your penis in your mouth, and start giving him a blowjob. Your spouse will be very surprised by your unexpected decision, but the bubbles of sparkling champagne will not take long to appear, and he will soon experience great excitement and ask you to continue your “event.”

6. Playing with beads

Find round beads in your home.

Be sure to check that they do not have chips, any metal inserts, or anything else that could cause injury. During your bed pleasure, appear in front of your loved one exclusively in this outfit.

7. Give a hand massage

To stimulate a second sexual act, after the previous orgasm, give your loved one a palm massage.

Using light circular movements of your fingers, begin to massage your husband's palms, gradually moving towards the wrist. Afterwards, you can move on from the massage to gentle kisses, start playfully licking, kissing, and sucking your loved one’s fingers. In the future, you can switch to the genital organ.

If you were unable to massage your palms, you can use part of this technique.

During sexual intercourse, take your loved one's hand and gently begin to suck his finger, without stopping the movement.

You will immediately feel how much this will excite your loved one, and you will be able to give him unforgettable pleasure.

Now you know 7 more ways -. I'm sure every woman has many more.

Love each other, please each other!

We all know that sex is not only pleasure, but also benefits for Health, and therefore for Beauty!

Many women blame their partner for unsuccessful sex, without thinking that they themselves could have been the cause of the fiasco. Recognizing the problem is already half the way to solving it. Let's figure out what bad sex habits you should get rid of as soon as possible.

Monotonous poses. You know perfectly well in which positions you get the most pleasure and are not in the mood to change anything, but in vain! Thus, you deprive both yourself and your partner of the opportunity to experience a range of new emotions and sensations. By changing positions, you get rid of boredom and monotony and explore new sensual horizons.

Passivity. For some reason, many women think that the initiative in bed should come exclusively from their partner. Believe me, the man will appreciate your activity and will try, in turn, to give 100%. In addition, women who strive to guide their men are much more likely to get what they want.

Simulating an orgasm. Firstly, men are not as insensitive and incomprehensible as some ladies think of them. If you feel false in bed, it will be difficult for your partner to trust you in life. Moreover, the fact that he does not satisfy you, and you do not want to admit it, can give rise to complexes in him. Secondly, by faking an orgasm, instead of working together to figure out the reasons for the failure, you are simply depriving yourself of pleasure.

Familiar algorithm. You are fluent in time management and believe that everything has its time and place. This is a very good quality... at work. And in intimacy, allow yourself spontaneity. Instead of planned sex in the evening, give in to an unexpected impulse in the morning. Try making love not only in the bedroom on the bed, but also in other places. A touch of adventurism will make sex brighter and more interesting.

Excessive romance. Even if you love chocolate, you still won't eat it three times a day every day. The most pleasant things tend to become boring. For you, intimacy means candles and rose petals, but today he is set up for a completely different scenario. Great! Practice, say, quick or rough sex. Free your intimate life from boredom and monotony, one day be a romantic lady, another time a depraved bitch, and someday a naive girl. This will significantly expand your sensory spectrum and will evoke a whole range of emotions in your loved one.

Conversations in bed. They can and should be led if both are in the mood for it. But conversations should be easy and not burdensome. You shouldn’t burden each other with problems and sort things out. It’s better to say a few gentle words to each other or just talk about something pleasant.

Tightness. Women fantasize a lot, but in bed they are often afraid to express themselves for fear of being misunderstood, because I’m “not like that.” Often it is possible to relax only under the influence of alcohol, but this is a path that leads to nowhere. Sometimes, the cause of tightness can be a feeling of imperfection of one’s body: “he will now see that I have cellulite on my thighs, and the bikini area has not been properly treated, and will lose interest in me.” Try to relax and enjoy yourself: he wants you and in his eyes you are beautiful! Learn to love yourself and accept yourself as you are. For a man, your sincere pleasure in the process is much more important than a couple of extra pounds on your hips, which he most likely did not even notice.

Overacting.Relaxation is very good, but you need to be so, and not seem so. In an attempt to be a sexy kitty, you don’t need to overact with moans and feign passion by scratching his back. It’s better not to try to impress a man with your Spanish temperament, but just be yourself. Naturalness will be appreciated more than feigned passion.

No foreplay - no sex. Sometimes he wants it fast and you need time to warm up. And then you either refuse him, citing lack of desire or a headache, or you give in and stare at the ceiling, waiting for it to end. Indeed, women need more time to “warm up”. And if you see that a man is not in the mood for long foreplay, this is not a reason to refuse good sex. The best way out is to take the initiative into your own hands.