• I often offend people, unintentionally. I still don’t understand whether it’s because they are such idiots, or because I’m so bad. Faris Rotter
• ... I said nothing. I know how to swallow grievances and pretend that everything is fine. Yulia Shilova. I want a rich man, or Who didn’t hide, it’s not my fault!
• It's stupid to be next to a man who is generally good, but offends you all the time. Salma Hayek
• Most people get angry because of grievances that they themselves have created by attaching deep meaning to trifles. Lucius Annaeus Seneca (younger)

• The more a person is inclined to offend others, the worse he himself tolerates insults. Seneca
• Words are useless when you are offended. In any case. The offender himself must realize the offense inflicted on him. The offended person must forgive the offender. The main thing is what is in the heart; on the lips, as a rule, there are only emotions. Why share them if over time they lose their meaning anyway? Elchin Safarli
• You turned out to be as primitive as an amoeba, and I don’t communicate with microorganisms. Happily! Margosha
• The greatest insult that can be caused to an honest person is to suspect him of being dishonest. William Shakespeare
• They are afraid and offended because they are always waiting for an opportunity to take revenge. Those who offend are also afraid because they are afraid of retribution. Aristotle
• Putting a person out the door is the best way to get him to think about what is left on the other side of the door. Iris Murdoch. Under the network
• When you bear a grudge, you create a new one. Publilius Syrus
• There is nothing more offensive for a man than to call him a fool, for a woman to say that she is ugly. Immanuel Kant
• Too many people stay alone because they are afraid of being hurt. We are afraid to care about people because we are afraid that others will not care about us. Anna Eleanor Roosevelt
• If you are dealing with a man, any word you say that can be understood in an offensive sense will be understood in an offensive sense. If you are dealing with a woman, any word you say that cannot be understood in an offensive sense will be understood in an offensive sense. Sylvia Cheese
• It is impossible to offend a reasonable person; you are offended exactly as much as your feelings exceed your reason. Frantisek Kryshka
• If a donkey kicks you, don't kick him back. Plutarch
• Nature has arranged it in such a way that insults are remembered longer than good deeds. Good things are forgotten, but grievances stubbornly remain in the memory. Seneca Aucius Annaeus (Younger)
• You cannot renounce a friend because of every offense. As-Samarkandi
• The memory of grievances is more durable than the memory of good deeds. Pierre Buast
• Just as warm clothes protect against cold, endurance protects against resentment. Increase patience and calmness of spirit, and resentment, no matter how bitter it may be, will not touch you. Leonardo da Vinci
• Memory and conscience have always diverged and will continue to diverge on whether offenses should be forgiven. George Saville Halifax
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  It is better to bear grievances than to inflict them.
• Beware of specialization: once you successfully perform in the role of the offended, you will never get another role. Wieslaw Brudzinski
• People of small minds are sensitive to petty insults. People of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything. François de La Rochefoucauld, "Maxims and Moral Reflections"
• He always disliked people who “didn’t want to offend anyone.” A convenient phrase: say it and offend whoever you want. Terry Pratchett. Is it true
• We are so strong to be offended and completely weak to forgive. Margosha
• Only weak individuals are offended. The strong either hate or forgive. Grigory Mikhailovich Tyutyunnik
• Collecting a suitcase of grievances and keeping it in the closet for the time being is a sacred thing for any girl. “I forgive everyone, but I write everything down” is their motto. Dmitry Yemets. Methodius Buslaev. The secret magic of Depresnyak
• You can be offended when a person repeats insults inflicted in rage, having already calmed down. Isaac Asimov. Fantastic Journey II
• The offender sins not as much as the one who allows the offense. Basil I the Macedonian
• Insults from those in power must be endured not just patiently, but with a cheerful face; if they decide that they really offended you, they will certainly repeat it. Seneca
• Never remember past grievances. Menander
• The offender is either stronger than you or weaker; if weaker, spare him, if stronger, spare yourself. Seneca
• Resentment is usually an acute internal disagreement with the inevitability of what you yourself have persistently strived for. Stas Yankovsky
• Only a friend can offend. Resentment is when you are mortally wounded by someone to whom you have become attached. Maria Semenova
• Resentment is like a tattoo - easy to apply, difficult to remove. Ashot Nadanyan
• A teacher's insult is better than a father's tenderness. Saadi
• It is easier to offend than to endure an offense. Publilius Syrus
• Resentment has more power over a woman than love, especially if that woman has a noble and proud heart. Margaret of Navarre

• An insult can be more easily endured by hearing than by sight.
• No one can hurt or insult you without your permission. Robin Sharma
• Write down grievances in the sand, carve blessings in marble. Pierre Buast
• Regardless of the reason for which you were insulted, it is best not to pay attention to the insult - after all, stupidity is rarely worthy of indignation, and anger is best punished with neglect. Samuel Johnson
• Being offended and indignant is like drinking poison in the hope that it will kill your enemies. Nelson Mandela
• We should not be offended by people who have hidden the truth from us: we ourselves constantly hide it from ourselves. Francois de La Rochefoucauld
• They offend both enemies and friends, because it is easy to offend the former, and it is pleasant to offend the latter. Aristotle
• We, people, keep our grievances in our hearts, cherish them, without even realizing that this destroys us. Just like that, we take pleasure in trying on the role of the victim. Helen Brown
• Wash the insult received not in blood, but in Lethe, the river of oblivion. Pythagoras of Samos
• He who harms one harms many.
• She was not offended, but the bad worm still began to dig holes in her heart. Victoria Platova. Stalingrad, metro station
• Love is oppressed by resentment.
• Salvation from all grievances lies in oblivion. Publilius Syrus
• He who intends to cause offense already causes it. Seneca Aucius Annaeus (Younger)
• Memory and conscience will never agree on whether offenses need to be forgiven. George Savile, Marquess of Halifax
• Treason can be forgiven, but resentment cannot. Anna Andreevna Akhmatova

Resentment is not worth blood, but only oblivion. Pythagoras

Resentment in a relationship means putting extra stones on it. The stronger the offense, the greater the burden on your feelings. And even the strongest will sooner or later collapse under this load. The ability to forgive is available only to the wise; the ability to ask for forgiveness is the lot of the strong in spirit.

You can’t accumulate grudges against loved ones, they don’t want to harm you, they don’t realize it. And if the person is not close, why pay attention to him at all?

Fate reserves for each of us a whole arsenal of hardships and trials. (Manilius)

The most valuable skill is the ability to prevent grievances before they occur. Democritus

If you don’t have the strength to forgive, it’s usually enough to remember how many times you yourself have been forgiven.

You can simply create a shell around yourself. And just as fur saves you from the cold wind, so this barrier will nullify all external insults. (Leonardo da Vinci)

We remember the good for a short time, the bad - all our lives. Pierre Buast

To be understanding means either to forgive completely or to cultivate an even greater resentment. (Unknown author)

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You cannot humiliate a person without humiliating yourself with him. (Booker Taliaferro Washington)

Memory and conscience have always diverged and will continue to diverge on whether offenses should be forgiven. (George Saville Halifax)

Resentment has more power over a woman than love, especially if that woman has a noble and proud heart. Navarre M.

Resentment and hatred cannot be satisfied - the only way to heal them is forgiveness.

An offensive word spoken impulsively does not offend as much as an offensive word spoken thoughtfully. Saying it in the heat of the moment does not mean doing it. This can be forgiven.

A non-offensive person is the kind of person whom you tell him to go to hell, and he will return rested and with magnets as a gift.

Smart people don't get offended, they draw conclusions. Unknown author

Every reasonable argument causes offense. Stendhal (Henri Marie Bayle)

There is a saying that one must either speak well of the dead or say nothing. In my opinion, this is stupidity. The truth always remains the truth. For that matter, you have to restrain yourself when talking about the living. They can be offended, unlike the dead. Christy A.

Just as warm clothing protects against cold, self-control protects against resentment. Increase patience and calmness of spirit, and resentment, no matter how bitter, will not touch you.

If you were offended, don’t think about why they did it, but answer yourself the question of why you allowed them to do it.

If someone has offended you, take revenge courageously. Remain calm - and this will be the beginning of your vengeance, then forgive - this will be the end of it.

Previously, I rejoiced at his every message, then with bated breath I waited for his call... And then something went wrong... and dead silence... well, now it makes me happy just by his appearance in the GUESTS section...

Resentment has more power over a woman than love, especially if that woman has a noble and proud heart. (Margarita of Navarre)

this is not a quote, this is a cry from the soul... the devil pulled me to go to Odnoklassniki, there I found out that my beloved man got married...))) it is impossible to describe the feelings and pain... I had the strength to write a message wishing happiness) I am strong and will survive! But how painful it is now...

Silence and faith - alas, is not my motto! I will not allow myself to be offended for nothing. This is my character, my whim, if you like. I was not brought up to remain silent after a blow!

Well, why do you offend me even in my dreams, now I’m scared to sleep... I used to be happy to see you in my dreams... and now I ask you to get out of them from my life, please don’t torment me.

An insult can be more easily endured by hearing than by sight. Publius

If you hurt me again, I will become the same as before. Remind me which one? I’ll put on a short dress, stockings, high-heeled shoes and go for a walk... through your heart, so much so that the heels will be erased!

At first you are silent because you have come up with a reason to be offended... Then it will be awkward to break the silence. And then, when everything is already forgotten, we will simply forget the language in which we understood each other...

When they try to smear your face on the asphalt, you need an incredibly strong desire to get up and prove with a smile on your face that it DIDN’T WORK OUT!!!

I swallowed my tears so often that I simply became salty. But now I don’t freeze in winter, and in summer I retain moisture well.

There is no need to offend me, I’m a vulnerable girl, I almost immediately burst into tears... And then with tear-stained eyes it’s so difficult to understand who the shovel hit...

You cannot renounce a friend because of every offense. As-Samarkandi

They say it true: “Time heals”!!! Some time passed and the pain really began to gradually dull, some kind of resentment fades away, and the emptiness from the heart slowly begins to disappear...

Insults from those in power must be endured not just patiently, but with a cheerful face: if

Or better yet, offend and be offended yourself. (Unknown author)

I met and fell in love with a good man, yes, a good one. And he still loves his ex-wife and repeats her name in his sleep... How painful it is to live with this, how strong love can be in men... It’s just jealous to the point of tears!!!

If you are offended, your offender has succeeded.

Are you not together? But if you really love him, with all your heart and soul, if you can’t sleep without him... maybe it’s not too late to call him, maybe he’s been waiting for your call all this time? (after all, not much time has passed)

The worst predator on earth is a drunken, offended blonde with lipstick in one hand and a phone in the other, who doesn’t care about anything. Even the fact that she is sitting behind the wheel.

This is because you have not forgiven your husband. You decided to live together with your head, but only your bodies are together at a certain time in a certain point in space. And love is gone forever.

The swallowed resentment will sooner or later come out in a certain form in a natural way.

Have you been offended? Don’t rush into battle and don’t rush to take revenge, just sit on the river bank and wait for the corpse of the offender to float past... (Lao Tzu. Chinese wisdom)

At first you are silent because you have come up with a reason to be offended... then it will be awkward to break the silence... and then, when everything is forgotten, we will simply forget the language in which we understood each other...

At first we are silent because we have come up with a reason to be offended... Then it will be awkward to break the silence... And then, when everything is forgotten, we simply forget the language in which we understood each other.

Let someone think that my character is difficult, and that I am complex and proud. The main thing is that there are people in my life for whom it is simple and easy with me, but difficult without me!

Only a woman can change her life with one act: marry someone else, be offended by her beloved, and then name her son after him.

You sit like this, wait for him, and don’t go anywhere all day. And then he will call and say: “I won’t come to you today!” And so it becomes bitter and offensive in my soul!!! I think someone will understand me!!

Never remember past grievances. (Menander)

The greatest insult that can be caused to an honest person is to suspect him of being dishonest. Shakespeare W.

Just one phrase... It’s like a knife to the heart...

Grief does not show its wounds; humiliation does not count insults. Thomas de Quincey

The best means of defense is attack;

It is easier to offend than to endure an offense.

The lot of beautiful women is unfounded accusations that discredit their name. At least go to a plastic surgeon... to have it disfigured...

Never remember past grievances.

It hurts not to be able to forgive. And it hurts to say goodbye. And cruel beasts tear a person in half - pride and love.

Sooner or later, each of us will have a moment in life when the people closest to you make a choice that is not in your favor, without realizing it, it’s painful and offensive for you to watch it...

He who harms one harms many. (Unknown author)

What I don't like most is your number on my phone. I hate your sudden calls, which do not relieve me of sadness. I don't miss our past meetings. I no longer bare my soul to you. And you didn’t offend me... Only one day I became completely indifferent...

Come, slap me in the face, step back and smile!

Resentment and resentment are like poison that you drink in the hope that others will be poisoned. Happiness begins with forgiveness.

You know, the heaviest insult is easier to bear... if you swallow it, along with the offender!!! Nothing hurts a person more than the fragments of his own happiness.

Beware of the one who did not answer your blow. (George Bernard Shaw)

The strength of the insult does not depend on the nature of the insult. The strength of the offense depends on the proximity of the one who offends you... The closer the person, the stronger the offense!

If you are offended, the enemy has succeeded. (Konstantin Kushner)

Salvation from all grievances lies in oblivion. Publius

It hurts him - he offends you, it hurts you - you offend him, he takes revenge on you, and so do you... So you bang your head against the same wall from different sides and you don’t care that the door is on the right!

The offender sins not as much as the one who allows the offense. (Basily I the Macedonian)

It’s a shame if you are fired not for abuses committed, but for abuses that were not committed. (Valery Afonchenko)

They will decide that they really offended you and will certainly repeat it. Lucius Annaeus Seneca (younger)

I quietly argue with mine. I'm not yelling. I don't throw tantrums. I just take his toothbrush and silently clean the toilet with it. Quietly, quietly.

It is very easy to turn a compliment into an insult or an insult. Eric Bern

People of small minds are sensitive to petty insults; people of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything. La Rochefoucauld

An insult can be more easily endured by hearing than by sight. (Publius Syrus)

there is a type of people who will spit in your soul and will also behave as if you offended them and should ask for forgiveness

I haven’t had coffee yet, how can I leave? Is it really possible, sir, that on a festive night the guests at the table are divided into two classes? Some are of the first, and others, as that vile stingy barman put it, are of the second freshness?

Someday I’ll be very drunk and I’ll tell you everything, everything that’s accumulated in my soul... and you’ll go nuts, you’ll honestly go nuts...

You know, sometimes you write a message to a person, not with your hands, but with your soul. You press: send and the heart in small fractions somewhere in the throat. And then he stops and hits the stomach with a stone. He read it, but didn’t answer... it feels like you’re holding out a piece of your soul to a person, and he’s pushing you face down into the dirt.

It is often better to ignore an insult than to take revenge for it. Publius

Oddly enough, people are more inclined to be offended by someone else's intelligence than by their own stupidity.

To prevent them from entering your soul, it is probably necessary to install a thick armored door, and instead of a peephole - an optical sight, so that before you finally let them in, you can clearly see all the details...

The greatest insult that can be caused to an honest person is to suspect him of being dishonest.

The main value is to Forgive and Understand, even if resentment swirls, we can hug each other with words - I need you so much... - And I need you too.

There are few people for whom the truth would not sound like an insult. (Sophia Segur)

My boyfriend calls me: “Come out, I’m driving up, I stood there for 5 minutes. he’s not on the street... I arrived... I get into the car and grumble for a long time... He was silent, silent, took out a bouquet of roses from the back seat with the words Shut up already, happy anniversary!!!

She wanted to be good... Not at all a bitch, like now... She didn’t want to be cruel... It happened that way... it’s a shame... But it seems like the angel is not evil... Simple deception...? or maybe not…? She herself doesn’t know yet... As she grows up, she will give the answer...

If you have offended someone, then try to correct it. Through confession you will receive forgiveness, and if you try to turn from guilty to right, you will only aggravate your own guilt. Penn William

There is nothing more offensive for a man than to call him a fool, for a woman to say that she is ugly. Kant I.

People who have not forgiven and come to terms with the offense, and especially those who dream of revenge, have a much higher stress level than those who have actually forgiven and let go.

If someone has offended you, don’t sulk, don’t be angry.

It’s strange, but those people who mean nothing in your life sincerely worry about you and sympathize with you. and those you love are indifferent...

People of small minds are sensitive to petty insults. People of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything. (Francois de La Rochefoucauld)

A woman is no worse than a computer - all the grievances caused, although they are put in a basket, can be taken out of there at any time!)

even if you are in pain you can sleep, but if you hurt someone else you will never be able to sleep...

A stupid person remembers insults, a smart person remembers offenders. (Vladimir Turovsky)

Deep-rooted anger cuts too deep. (William Shakespeare)

I'm not upset that he didn't call. I'm offended that I waited like a fool...

Anyone who thinks that new benefits can make the great of this world forget about old grievances is mistaken. (Niccolò Machiavelli)

The phone was treacherously silent. The resentment was so suffocating that it became nauseating... A terrible thought flashed through: Is this really the end? I listened to my inner voice - silence, and only an endless dull aching pain, no, not in the heart... It probably hurts so much when a soul dies... If only he knew how much it hurts...

When you bear a grudge, you create a new one. Publius

Learn not to be offended. It's very difficult, but so rewarding!

Free your soul from insults... and you won’t notice how your soul will take off!)

In the east there lived a sage who taught his disciples this way:

“People insult in three ways. They may say you are stupid, they may call you a slave, they may call you untalented. If this happens to you, remember a simple truth: only a fool will call another a fool, only a slave looks for a slave in another, only a mediocrity justifies what he himself does not understand by someone else’s madness. Therefore, never be offended by anyone, and do not insult yourself.”

Start with a simple thing: wish all the best to the people who once offended you.

No need to carry around stupid suitcases of grievances. If only because if your hands are busy with something bad, then it is impossible to take something good from them.

the less he finds reasons to be offended.

No one can offend me unless I allow it myself.

Mahatma Gandhi ---

You should not be offended by the person who offended you - in his soul he is more offended.

The inner world does not tolerate chaos. Take a “broom” and clean up the shower. It’s time to finally sweep out all the grievances and sorrows, losses and disappointments that have accumulated there. It's time to finally make room for something truly new, bright, pure and beautiful.

You don't forgive others to heal them. You forgive others to heal yourself.

Chuck Hilling

It is impossible to offend a happy woman...

You can only make her laugh!

If you have learned not to be offended, it means that you have learned to look into the heart of another.

Challenging behavior towards you is not a personal insult towards you, it is a measure of a person’s suffering. This is how he shows you how much pain he is in and how much compassion he needs.

They may say you are stupid, they may call you a slave, they may call you untalented. If this happens to you, remember a simple truth: only a fool will call another a fool, only a slave looks for a slave in another, only a mediocrity justifies what he himself does not understand by someone else’s madness. Therefore, never be offended by anyone, and do not insult yourself, so as not to be branded as stupid, untalented slaves.

Happy people cannot be evil. Only those who are unhappy themselves try to offend others. Your offender was not trying to offend you. He was only projecting onto you what was the real purpose of his aggression. (Anthony de Mello)

The greater the resentment, the more I lose strength.

Resentment is the problem of the one who is offended. This means that it was you who did not have enough mental strength for this person, it was you who could not cope with yourself.

If you are full of strength, energy, if you feel good simply because it is spring outside, and you feel strength and power in yourself - is a person in such a state capable of being offended by someone? When we are full of energy, grievances pass us by. If we are offended, it means that somewhere there is already an outflow of energy, it means that somewhere you have not tracked your condition and have not taken measures to bring yourself back to normal. So what do other people have to do with it?

Why are you offended that no one thought of you or washed the dishes on your birthday? Why didn’t you warn about this yourself, didn’t you say so? Why are you silently, angrily gritting your teeth, doing something, instead of asking someone to help you? Why do you create dramatic images and feel sorry for yourself to the point of tears? Why? Maybe you want to torture yourself?

Any of our grievances is connected with our self-esteem, in other words, with our ego. That is, we are offended that they underestimated us, did not predict our desires, did not think about us first.

(quotes from the article “Adult Children of Resentment” - Maria Petrochenko - Wheel of Life June 2013)

When you have the same people around you, it somehow comes naturally that they come into your life. And having entered your life, after a while they want to change it. And if you don’t become what they want you to be, they get offended. Everyone knows exactly how to live in the world. But for some reason no one can improve their own life.

Paulo Coelho "The Alchemist"

Don’t clog your memory with grievances, otherwise there may simply be no room left for beautiful moments!

Blaming others is such a little trick that you can use whenever you don’t want to take responsibility for what is happening in your life. Use it - and you are guaranteed a risk-free life and a slowdown in your own development.

Resentment provides two important benefits that people have a hard time giving up. The first is judgment, and the second is a sense of self-righteousness.

Most people get angry because of grievances that they themselves have created by attaching deep meaning to trifles.

No one can offend you without your consent.

I still don’t understand why people stay angry with each other for a long time. Life is already unforgivably short, it’s impossible to really get anything done, there’s so little time that you can say there’s none at all, even if you don’t waste it on all sorts of stupid things like quarrels.
Max Fry

Regardless of the reason for which you were insulted, it is best not to pay attention to the insult - after all, stupidity is rarely worthy of indignation, and anger is best punished with neglect.
Samuel Johnson

If a donkey kicks you, don't kick him back.Plutarch

Resentment is actually a way of grooming and protecting one’s self. (Rollo May - The Art of Psychological Counseling)

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The sage was asked:
- They say that you know everything, but tell us - what is resentment?
The sage brought a porcelain cup to his lips, slowly drank sake from it and answered:
- Here, there are a few drops of sake left at the bottom of the cup. Do I feel offended by this? If I don't want it anymore, then I don't care. And if I didn’t have enough, then I’ll find more sake, pour it into the same cup, and the remaining drops will dissolve in it. And then I'll drink them. That’s how resentment is, a person decides for himself whether to endlessly torment himself with his resentment, or to make sure that it dissolves with benefit.

Living with resentment is quite easy. The mechanism of resentment simplifies a lot. I am good - they are bad, so I was offended. Resentment removes guilt. Resentment even justifies. But if you are offended for a long time and about many things, then after a while you can find yourself beautiful, living in a bad and offensive world among bad and offensive people. And if you don’t be offended, then questions will arise mostly to yourself. And then you can feel that you are not the smartest, not the most right and not the most beautiful in the world, but at the same time live among good people and in not the worst of worlds.

The husband is offended by his wife because he thought that she would realize that he would need a white shirt tomorrow.
The wife is sulking at her husband because she thought that he would think of buying her flowers.
The child is offended by his parents because they should have guessed that he needed a new construction set, etc.
That is, first we figure out how other people should behave. Then we make sure that they don’t behave like that. And we are offended by them for this. This is normal, because in a madhouse that’s not what happens.

There is nothing worse than the anger of people who were once close to us. Unlike the rest of the world, they know all our secrets, all our weak points and every pain point. And when they get angry, they hit with all their might, as painfully as they can. And they consider themselves entitled to do this precisely because they were once close and enjoyed our trust. So, once again opening your soul to someone, it would be nice to remember that this person can someday become a former loved one...

Who will I be able to amaze with this hackneyed truth?
Do not rush to pronounce words born of resentment.
Do not rush to offend your friend with your injustice,
To suddenly drive him into a corner, even though he is no weaker.
He's just a little kinder. he will wait out the rage in silence.
And the sooner you cool down, the more bitter your departure will be.
And then shame will awaken in you. Don’t rush to part with him.
And the friend will only smile sadly. Like tears, the blood will be wiped away from the soul.

Socrates was never offended. He rightly said that this either did not concern him, or if it did, it was right. If you are offended by a person, then he is taller, smarter and more worthy of you. So take an example from him, reach up to his level. And if he is lower, stupider and less worthy than you, then, by being offended by him, you exalt him with your offense, and humiliate yourself.

A person has offended you, but you go and do him good, give him the warmth and affection of your soul, and the knot will be untied, the anchor will fall from your heart. After this, you will both live and breathe easier. Through such victories with love in the places of your defeat, the heart, step by step, victory after victory, will gain purity.

We waste so much time suffering from grievances that we won’t even remember in a year. No, you need to devote your life to actions and feelings worthy of a person. Let us be inspired by great thoughts, genuine affections, immortal deeds. After all, life is too short to waste it on trifles.

Even if you offended me, why do I need your apology? This is your life and your actions. We make our life by our actions. And if we do the wrong thing, we end up in trouble later. What to do - right or wrong? There is freedom of choice here.

No matter how much you are offended, you still need to trust people, otherwise you will become like a hermit in a cave, who is on alert even in his sleep. Danger can never be avoided anyway. Life is even deadly dangerous, even fatal at the end of life.

There is nothing more enduring than hopeless love. Mutual love can get boring. Passionate love turns into friendship or hatred. But unrequited love will never completely leave the heart, so firmly will resentment cement it.

I'm never angry with anyone. There is nothing anyone can do that deserves such a reaction from me. You get angry with people when you feel that their actions are important. I haven't felt anything like this for a long time.

A warrior must learn to be aware of every action, to make every action conscious.© Carlos Castaneda. What is the best cure for resentment? If everything I write about is condensed into one universal advice, then this advice will be: “pump up your...

A man becomes courageous when he has nothing to lose. We are cowardly only when there is still something to which we can cling. ©️ Carlos Castaneda. To get rid of resentment, you need to work through it. Do not read advice from the Internet on how to accept yourself,...

Friendship between men and women is impossible. Passion, enmity, worship, love are possible, but not friendship. @Oscar Wilde. Is it true that friendship is impossible between men and women? If by friendship we mean that friendship which is definitely possible between...

You get offended when reality does not meet your unconscious expectations. Did you expect your friend to share everything intimate with you, and she didn't? You offended. You expected that you would be given a bonus at work, and this did not happen...

A warrior accepts responsibility for all his actions, even the most trivial ones. The average person is busy with his own thoughts and never takes responsibility for what he does. @Carlos Castaneda. What actions are you responsible for? You say: "For everything...