A year ago I met a Dagestani man. He immediately began to show sympathy for me. Initially, I understood that this relationship would not lead to anything more. I started them in order to have fun, get distracted, have a good time, but nothing more. At that time, I was going through a breakup with my ex-boyfriend, whom I had been dating for about 2 years. We broke up on my initiative, but it was still unpleasant. At that time, I did not yet perceive the new relationship even simply as a relationship, because religion is quite important to me. I clearly understood that my parents would most likely be against it. Initially, we met very rarely, then more and more often. I didn’t even notice how quickly I got used to him, although after two months I constantly tried to end this relationship, realizing that there was no future and the sooner we parted, the better it would be. I met other men, spent time with them, had fun with my friends, various clubs, parties. I was looking for reasons for quarrels, but I still can’t understand why he always stopped me, asked me not to leave him, even cried because of me. He treated me like no other person has ever treated me (although I had a decent number of relationships). This definitely flattered me and instead of a period, I put an ellipsis again. He gave me flowers, gifts, forgave me everything, could come to me just to stand under the balcony, laid out hearts from flowers for me, spoke and wrote incredible words. For the first few months we never talked about religion. For me this topic was taboo, and he did not start it. One day, I asked my friend to find out what he expected from this relationship, to which he said that he wanted a future and due to the fact that he was born, raised and his family lives in Slavic places, he practically does not observe customs. After about five months, I finally decided to talk about this topic. He said that there is no prohibition on marriage between people of different religions. I said that my parents would never accept this, and neither would his parents. He answered me: “Where did you get the idea? Everything is possible and feasible." I still tried to break up, but he held me, asked, begged. I knew that he loved me. And I decided to take a risk, to try, I thought, why should we break up now, since we feel incredibly good together? Then I understood that sooner or later, we would have to separate, and I hoped that this would happen for any banal reason, it doesn’t matter, but not because of religion. We began to spend more and more time together, I became incredibly attached to this person and experienced very strong feelings and emotions, but I kept him at a distance and did not allow myself to fall in love with him. I stopped communicating with girlfriends, friends, stopped going anywhere to have fun, and if I did go, it was only with him. We spent all our time together. He asked not to keep him at a distance, to give vent to all feelings, asked for seriousness. And I gave up. He said that he wanted to live with me all his life, to be only with me always, he asked me to be only with him always. I still sometimes had thoughts, and I asked when we would separate, meaning that it was impossible to be together. He replied that this was stupidity, that we would not part. He said that he had met the one with whom he would like to spend his whole life. And I believed. I even began to think that if this is really such a strong love, then my parents would understand, and I could try to convince them of this sometime later, in the future. He went to his homeland, and I thought that if we were not destined to be together, he would understand it there, in that environment. But he continued to write and say that he always wants to be with me, that I am the only one in his life, and that he met me for the future. I tried to quarrel again. But he again asked and begged not to leave him, again he wrote the word “always” and I understood that I also loved him and could not live without him. I drove away sad thoughts and tried to enjoy what I had. But they never left me. He saw that I really fell in love, he knew that I needed him and that I was serious in my feelings. And at that moment he began to move away. Everything was the same as before, but I felt that something was wrong. We began to quarrel constantly, I was always the initiator, but he no longer wanted to make peace. I thought that he would always come running and apologize himself. But this did not happen. And I started it all. At this time, I somehow forgot about religion and thought that this was a crisis in our relationship, that we had to survive, try, take risks. We began to see each other less often. He stopped saying the word “always” to me. One day we were talking and for some reason I asked him: “Can we be together?” It was a very difficult conversation. He answered no. This is customary according to their customs. He will marry only his girlfriend. I told him that he needed to fight for love, for feelings. She asked me to talk to my parents. He told us we were never meant to be together. We can not. He knows the parents' answer, because... A similar situation had already arisen in his family. I asked why all those words were there then and he answered that he said what he felt, without thinking about the future. In the end, we decided to remain friends, but he still keeps me, calls, writes, looks for meetings, says that I am still his girlfriend, although his parents told him to get married in a year (maybe even earlier, but that’s what he says). He continues to write, saying that he loves him very much, and does not allow him to communicate with other young people. On the one hand, I understand with my mind that all this is bullshit, but on the other hand, I still have strong feelings for him. And it’s impossible not to see each other, and to end it all. I really want to be friends, because the person is good, but I can’t figure out how to be friends with him. Advise something or tell your story of relations with a Dagestani.

Dagestan men are so harsh that... But is this really so? In fact, the system of fears of the Dagestani is multipolar and quite stable. I'll explain why.

Of course, any Dagestani, within the limits of statistical error, will naturally say that he is not afraid of anything. But this would be deceit. Our brother is afraid. Not physical suffering, no ozone holes, spiders, atomic bombs, war on two fronts, information blockade. No no no! Everything is quite simpler. A man’s fears lie on a completely different plane.

I assure you, it’s a matter of education, responsibility and self-esteem. Three pillars that give us starting points. We don't need to invent new trajectories.

A shame. Contempt. Main fear. Systemic. Soaked with blood. There is nothing worse for a man than disrespect and shame. You can lose an important argument or match, battle, screw up everything in the world, including your house, girlfriend (wife) and car, but the main thing is to remain in the eyes of others man in black . That is, in the “honor and respect” mode. And if they say a word for you, and in the neighborhood they say that you are the right kid, you can handle anything, you can overcome anything. Image warms not only the soul. Image works for you. It doesn't matter how or when. It is easier to lose a reputation than to create it, said Samuel Butler. Today's Dagestani blindly follows this rule and adds: “If you do it normally, it will be fine.”

Tears.The man is pathologically afraid of tears. Our own. Strangers. Especially women's ones. He is completely unfamiliar with tears and does not understand what to do with them, how to react... Tears are more of a feminine thing. A whole art that a man, as a rule, is not familiar with. A man can know how the Neapolitan “Camorra” differs from the Latin American “Mara Salvatrucia”, how the image of Cressida was interpreted differently by Boccaccio, Chaucer, Robert Henryson and Shakespeare, extract the square root in his mind, and talk about the dangers and benefits of autoimmune drugs, but he knows nothing about tears. Absolutely nothing.

Go to hell.Amazing property! The Dagestani has at the same time a (magnetic) craving for tyranny, recklessness, a desire to destroy and go beyond (what is, that is, you must agree) and bravado... and an amazing fear of the other world. We are terribly afraid of going to hell and this is the same cold shower that sometimes has a sobering effect. And the man wonders what he will say Up There when asked about his sins. Unfortunately, for true adherents of chaos this is not the strongest argument. “I want to go to heaven, but there are more people I know in hell” - this is what, unfortunately, many people think about when they go out onto the porch in the morning. Those especially knowledgeable quote Shakespeare: “Hell is empty. All the demons are here.”

No children. Fine mental tuning in such cases fails and all the light becomes darkness. The desire to be a father is something that a Dagestani does not need to instill. The Dagestani has been dreaming about how he will play with his child (“it doesn’t matter what gender the child will be, the main thing is that the boy is healthy!”) in hide and seek, football, or going to watch a match at the stadium since he was 10, no, since he was 15, okay, from about 18 years old.

Poverty.Everyone is afraid of her. The topography of the Dagestani consciousness gives a clear answer - family wealth is a primary concern... not to mention the car that every representative of the stronger sex dreams of. If all this results in a black Priora being planted and driving around the city at night in search of adventurous cataclysms and man-made disasters, then we are not talking about buffoonery (one of the main vices of a Dagestan man, about which it is worth writing a treatise or a scientific dissertation). A man who strives to subjugate time and money and thinks more about how to feed his family is pathologically afraid of poverty.

Women.On the one hand, why be afraid of them? And who will admit it? However, everyone has a subconscious fear of being misunderstood, rejected, unpopular... And yes... they sometimes behave so strangely... they speak in that same hateful tone of “women of progressive views.” It has long been no secret that in the presence of a woman, a man often feels like a fool. And this feeling is very lousy. The fear derived from women is the fear of family ties. In my opinion, comments are unnecessary here.

Be known as stingy. The Dagestan man, with rare exceptions, is a priori generous. A dubious quality for the family budget and savings, exceptional luck for a girl who has designs on a man. In addition, even a minor rumor between friends that “Maga is a miser” can completely destroy a person’s reputation.

Be stupid.This is probably where we should have started. After all, here is both a statement of fact (well, who is not afraid of being stupid - only a really stupid person) and a wish. There is nothing more shameful for a man than buffoonery.

The national question has always been acute in our country, and this is not surprising. The Russian Empire, later the USSR, and even later Russia, was and is a common home for dozens of peoples and nationalities. Most of them live amicably among themselves, but, as the proverb states, “there is a black sheep in a family.” And the Dagestanis are considered such a “freak” among the Slavic population.

Dagestanis differ from Russians in literally everything, from their appearance to their national mentality and traditions. But no less differences can be found among any other two peoples. And the Slavs and the Caucasians have one more thing in common: they are equally disliked abroad. And, by the way, for the same thing:

- violent temperament, tendency to violence;

— disregard for state and moral laws;

— confidence that any problem can be solved with weapons or a bribe;

“But wait,” you say, “Caucasians are okay, but is the above about us?” No. Not about you, but about those moral monsters who, alas, create the image of an entire nation in the eyes of the international community. Not all Dagestanis are bandits, not all Chechens are terrorists, not all Ukrainian women flash their bare breasts in front of the video cameras of foreign journalists, but it is these subhumans that we see on blue screens. It’s not interesting to show normal ones... This is how one gets the impression about Russians “over the hill” from observing the leisure time of our bandits, deputies and oil workers.

And yet, if we draw up a collective portrait of the average Dagestani, we get a stranger and a potential enemy. Why? Let's figure it out.

The most characteristic feature of Dagestanis is clanism. Any nation in which this trait is clearly manifested will always be unloved by its neighbors: remember the same Jews, ethnic Germans, Crimean Tatars. If any of the representatives of the above nations succeeds in anything, he will actively help his compatriots succeed. A particularly amusing grotesque results when we are talking about bureaucratic positions: under the command of a high-ranking Dagestani his brothers will work - his own, cousins ​​and second cousins, as well as sons, nephews, sons-in-law, in short - everyone who is able to sign and handle the seal. In this situation, even a very smart and talented person from the outside cannot count on a good position.

Dagestanis jealously guard their authenticity and actively position themselves as outsiders among Russians. How can you not feel xenophobia if you see a group of people of Caucasian nationality talking emotionally about something in their own language? What if they are planning a terrorist attack right now? Moreover, even speaking in Russian, they manage to insert such tricky words into their speech that you won’t understand whether the Dagestani is talking about the weather or has sent you obscenities. But try to demand clarification, and behind the offender’s back a dozen more friends appear, ready to defend their own, without understanding who is to blame.

Strangers. This foreignness is in everything. When a Russian guy sees a girl from his yard walking arm in arm with a Caucasian stranger, anger boils within him. Yes, the “black” is rich, but do Slavic women really have no pride, since they allow themselves to be groped by all sorts of Dagestanis?! While Caucasian girls will not let a man come within shooting distance of them without serious intentions. More precisely, her father and brothers will not let anyone near her. The result is another cognitive dissonance and an attack of xenophobia.

Only Caucasians themselves provoke a negative attitude towards themselves. Alas. It provokes the rednecks, positioning themselves as masters of the concrete jungle, and interethnic anger then punishes normal guys, whose only guilt before their Slavic neighbors is that they have black hair and live in a traditional way of life. Just to punish a Dagestan drug lord - the nationalists have short hands, but to beat up a Caucasian selling melons is easy.

The national question in Russia is becoming more complex every year. And I would like to optimistically hope that reason will one day win, but if only it wins before blood is shed. Before the feud reaches the point of no return. They say it’s true - a bad peace is better than a good war, and you need to get along with your neighbors. But also not to allow lawlessness - neither from one interested party of the national issue nor from the other.

Relationship between a Russian woman and a Dagestan man

Now about 20% of families there are marriages between people of different nationalities. As for creating a family with Russian people, about 85% of marriages of this kind are families in which the husband is Dagestani and the wife is Russian. Dagestan women marry Russian men much less often: such marriages account for only 15% of all marriages with Russians.

If you are interested in the relationship between a Russian woman and a Dagestan man, or if you are planning to connect your life with a Dagestan man, you will find some of our recommendations useful on what you should prepare for and what you should consider.

Customs of Dagestanis towards women

Firstly, Dagestan is a multinational country. Avars, Kumyks, Russians, Tabasarans, Chechens, Nogais, Jews, Dargins, Lezgins, Laks, Azerbaijanis and other peoples live there. So, initially it is worth knowing what nationality your chosen one belongs to, and studying the culture of this particular people.

Secondly, you should prepare for the fact that the groom’s relatives may not be quite ready for an interethnic marriage. In Dagestan, marriages between equals are considered the strongest. Nationality, culture, social status, financial status, faith must be the same. Moreover, some Dagestanis are confident that a family should be created with a member of a related clan or a fellow villager. Strangers have to fight longer to be accepted by the relatives of their future husband or wife from Dagestan.

In Dagestan, many marriages are still arranged by parents. So a marriage between a Russian woman and a Dagestani man can ruin their plans. And although morals have become looser in recent years, it is important to take this feature into account and not be nervous if parents at first try to arrange a marriage for their son with the bride they themselves like. If they see that this is impossible, most likely they will not interfere with their son's choice.

Some traditions for raising a family in Dagestan are gradually becoming a thing of the past, but others are appearing, unexpectedly for everyone. For example, bride theft is now rare. Brides are stolen only in villages far from cities, and even then more often with her consent. But in recent years, the tradition of paying bride price has begun to develop.

If your Dagestani chosen one is the youngest son in the family, it is possible that you will have to wait a long time for the wedding. Relationships between family members in Dagestan are built on respect for elders. And if your fiancé's older brothers are not yet married, then his family may ask to wait until they arrange their lives. This does not mean at all that this family sees something seditious in the relationship between a Russian woman and a Dagestan man. This is just a tradition that is customary to observe in Dagestan.

Dagestan men: their attitude towards women

If you want to connect your destiny with a Dagestan man, you generally need to be prepared to participate from time to time in performing various rituals and observing traditions.

For example, in Dagestan, as in Europe, it is customary to test feelings. Before the wedding, it is customary to enter into an engagement, which can last several years. And only if the newlyweds do not change their minds over the years, the wedding gets ready and takes place.

Most weddings in Dagestan now are no different from typical Russian weddings. This is a trip to the registry office, a feast, songs and dances. But the pre-wedding rituals can surprise a Russian woman.

For example, in some villages of Dagestan, during the engagement period, the groom’s relatives can organize a “women’s holiday.” They come to the bride's house with suitcases full of gifts. It's mostly about jewelry and dresses, so there's a lot of fun to be had as the bride and her bridesmaids have the opportunity to try on a variety of different outfits without any shopping.

After the wedding, a Dagestani wife must show two main traits: modesty and respect for elders. Modern Dagestani women in large cities can wear quite bold clothes and jewelry, but in villages and small towns it is still customary to wear a long skirt or dress.

A wife must respect and obey her husband, but she is also expected to have feminine cunning. Unlike some Western cultures, in which manipulation on the part of a wife is considered something indecent, among Dagestanis it is not only acceptable, but desirable. A Dagestani wife should not achieve her goal through squabbles, hysterics or direct instructions. To persuade her husband to make the decision she needs, she must show cunning, charm and remarkable intelligence.

Dagestanis, unlike many Russian men, devote much more time to raising children. This may seem unusual to Russian women. However, after the birth of a child in a family where the father is Dagestani and the mother is Russian, a woman can expect surprises. A father’s word means a lot to a child in a Dagestan family, and a woman may find that over time her children will listen to their father much more strongly than to her.

This has both its pros and cons. The advantage is that male upbringing forms a special type of adaptation to the world in a child - the ability to remake the world to suit himself and his needs. Disadvantages - if the mother’s role in raising children is reduced to a minimum, then children can grow up to be overly demanding and aggressive. It is customary among Dagestanis that a woman herself should be able to defend her rights to take part in solving important issues regarding children. This may seem unusual to a Russian woman: in Russian families, the wife is endowed with this right by default, and sometimes there is even a polar situation when the father is not involved in raising children until adolescence.

If you profess the “child-free” ideology, that is, you do not want to have children, then your marriage with a Dagestani man will probably not work out. Because in their culture, the basis of marriage is the birth and raising of children. And a woman who does not want to do this will always be perceived as inferior and will quickly become an outcast.

Russian girl and Dagestani man

Today I talked to my friend. She lives in another city

she said that she is now dating a Dagestani guy..

the previous one was also a Dagestani. and another pre-previous one..

She was almost going to marry the previous one..

but he took her virginity and a few months later became engaged to a non-Russian girl

How often do you think such couples bring their relationship to marriage?

there are just a lot of non-Russian boys I know, and they say that they wouldn’t marry Russian girls.

but I believe that love has no nation.

I had a friend...she was being fooled by a hot man for 7 years. Moreover, when they started dating, he didn’t have a wife), he left, came and brought his wife), that’s what the father said and that’s it. and every Wednesday, if memory serves, for 5 years my wife flew back to her homeland))) in general, everyone understands the outcome, I think.

To be honest, I think that Russian girls shouldn’t bother with them at all!!

Let them marry their own people and shake their rights before them.

I don’t see anything wrong if people love each other, even down to their nationality?

There were a lot of questions like this(

Here is an example of such a wedding.

Although now. everything has changed long ago, Caucasian women have lost their upbringing and rigor and therefore, coming to Moscow or being born here, are not in a believing family. lose all values ​​and associate themselves with everyone, without having a Caucasian or Russian division.

And herself. Russian. I fell in love with a Caucasian, a Dagestani. Now he is my husband, we are expecting a child. And they are different from Russian men; of course, I had no relationships with Russian guys. but I look at my friends and the differences are significant :) though. again. Every person is individual! Their hot blood, character, upbringing, respect for elders, many need to learn this. Although the younger generation of Dagestanis poses for their nation, for which they receive, if possible, a slap on the ears from their older brothers :)))

In general, they are a good nation, I really love these people. I am very sorry that these are the times now and they are trying to make Dagestanis look bad. My husband, his friends, and relatives are great guys.

In business, Dagestanis in particular are excellent partners. Honest, reliable. There is no division by nation here.

But love is not a business - it’s a different matter. The person must fit in and fit in. Therefore, the issue of nations is extremely acute. They don't take Russians as wives.

And if he is not a believer, then they do have strict customs (but not all of them) that they marry off their sons only as their own. and they even have divisions among themselves: Dargins, Lezgins, Avars. And I can’t allow marriage between myself either.

Everything is individual here.

When I started communicating with my now husband (he is Dagestani), I read many articles about how they marry only their own. cried, worried.

But everything is the will of the Almighty!

And now I’m married to my beloved man (Dagestanian, and I’m Russian!) and we are expecting a child! InshaAllah.

Who are the Dagestanis and why do they behave “wrong”?

Dagestanis - under this word is not some single nation united, but a kind of conglomerate of the most different peoples welded together. What is their peculiarity, why can Dagestan be called a territory with a unique population? In this article you will find answers to all these questions.

National composition of Dagestan

The Caucasus is a unique place of contrasts of cultures and peoples. Mono-ethnic regions (for example, Chechnya and Ingushetia) coexist peacefully with multi-ethnic ones. According to rough estimates, 36 nationalities live in Dagestan.

At the same time, such a nationality as Dagestani does not exist in nature. This word is unifying for many different peoples living on the territory of the republic. This situation can be called unique, since, as a rule, the titular people live within the same subject - that is, the one who predominates in number and gives the name to the territory itself. In the case of Dagestan, this is not the case.

Despite the fact that many centuries ago various ethnic groups formed on the Dagestan lands, in official documents of the Russian Empire they were called: the mountain population - Lezgins, and the inhabitants of the plains - Turks. During the Caucasian War of 1817-1864, one more name could be found - Chechens.

The first definitions were given mainly by Russian geographers and ethnographers studying the North Caucasus, and the second came into use among Cossack settlers and later Russian regular troops. Only after Soviet power was established did detailed studies of the characteristics of a particular nationality begin.

The answer to the question of how many Dagestanis live in the region today is provided by Rosstat statistics. At the beginning of 2017, the population is just over 3 million people. However, it is also worth considering that many local residents permanently live outside its borders, while maintaining their traditions and national mentality. But just a hundred years ago the numbers were disproportionately lower.

Thus, according to the 1897 census, there were only about 600 thousand people in the republic. The reasons for the demographic boom at the beginning of the 20th century were:

During Soviet times, the birth rate in Dagestan was almost twice as high as it is today. There were an average of five children per family. However, today the republic ranks fifth in the country in terms of birth rate.

In 2010, in the Constitution of Dagestan, the status of “state language” was assigned to 14 indigenous peoples:

Not a single people of Dagestan can be called predominant in number, although the Avars in a certain sense can be called dominant. The fact is that the Avars include several ethnic groups, and they account for about 30% of the population of the entire republic:

It is also worth noting that Lezgins make up 13% of the region’s population, Dargins - 16.9%, Azerbaijanis - 4.5%, Laks - about 5.5%, Russians - 3.6%. Nogais, Aguls, Tsakhurs, Rutuls - on average, 1% of the total population of the region.

In addition to those listed, there are 14 more different small nationalities that are included in ethnic groups. So, the Dargins include:

All these peoples and ethnic groups are recognized as indigenous. But besides them, Kazakhs, Jews, Uzbeks, Armenians, Georgians, Tatars, Belarusians, Ossetians, and Persians also live in the Republic of Dagestan. As you can see, the composition of the republic is incredibly diverse, and all these people are Dagestanis, because most of them have been around for several generations, so this mountainous country became their homeland a long time ago.

Of course, what unites the residents of Dagestan is not only a common territory, but also religion. According to researchers, about 95% of the total population professes Islam of various denominations. Of these, the vast majority are Sunnis, while Shiites make up only 4%. Almost 5% of Dagestanis are Christians. But both Muslims and Orthodox Christians coexist peacefully here. It is not for nothing that, for example, the city of Derbent is called the “Jerusalem of the Caucasus” for its tolerance and friendship among peoples.

Dagestanis and Russians: historical sketch

The question may arise: why did the republican authorities officially recognize the Russian population as indigenous? The thing is that the Russians began to penetrate into the territory of this region quite a long time ago. This was connected, first of all, with trade relations, since one of the caravan routes to Persia passed through Dagestan.

Peter the Great visited Derbent at the very beginning of the 18th century, and at that time ethnic Russians were already present here, although there were very few of them. At the beginning of the 19th century, Cossack outposts and fortifications of the Russian army began to appear here.

Of course, not all mountaineers were happy with the “northern guests.” But there were also those who went to serve the Russian Tsar. Many local men acted as guides and supported the new order. However, there were also those who still considered themselves independent. In many ways, mutual understanding between Dagestanis and Russians was hampered by the incitement of Turkey and Persia, which had their own political and economic interests in this region.

As a result, this whole shaky social structure at the beginning of the 19th century led to a bloody war that lasted almost 50 years. A new state entity was created - the Imamate, headed by the charismatic Imam Shamil.

The conquest of the Caucasus was not easy for Russia. The mountaineers felt independent, were divided into small separate khanates, and the very concept of statehood was alien to them. However, as a result of the Gulistan Peace Treaty, Dagestan nevertheless became part of Russia. And this became the reason for the further rapprochement of the Dagestan peoples and the Russian population.

Today, Dagestanis live peacefully with Russians, as well as with representatives of other nationalities. Moreover, interethnic marriages have become commonplace, which also strengthen national ties. However, often a Russian beauty’s feeling of inner freedom can be the reason that relationships go wrong.

It must be taken into account that the difference in mentality here is still huge. And what attracts a Dagestan man to a Russian woman outside of marriage can alert him when he begins to think about starting a family with her. In general, the relationship between Caucasian guys and Russian girls is the topic of a separate article.

On the other hand, many Slavic girls have ambivalent attitudes towards Dagestanis. Features of the national character of a Caucasian man at a certain stage may not seem so important for the relationship. But when it comes to talking about the wedding, a woman begins to think and test her feelings for strength.

She understands that most often she will be forced to move among people with a completely different mentality and with different views on family life. Not everyone is ready to put up with this state of affairs. It is no coincidence that some researchers and psychologists claim that such marriages in 80-90% of cases end in divorce and complete severance of relationships.

However, there are many examples of how such interethnic marriages exist and at the same time grow stronger day by day. A Caucasian man and a Russian girl can create a real union, provided that their feelings are able to overcome the difference in worldviews. Again, the same religion will be a big advantage (but not decisive).

If a Christian wife is ready to convert to Islam for the sake of love, this is already half the success. Such cases are not uncommon. But there are only a few examples to the contrary. Even a Muslim man who loves his Russian wife very much is unlikely to renounce his religion.

If a Slavic woman nevertheless decides to marry a representative of the mountains, she must understand that she will have to put up with not only many national traditions, but also with the way of life. Urban couples can still lead a completely secular lifestyle, but a strict patriarchy still reigns in mountain villages, and respect for elders is an integral feature of upbringing in Dagestan. In such conditions, the girl will have to give up a short skirt and a lot of makeup. But in such a family, children will know from birth that they are obliged to honor their father and mother.

What are they like - the modern inhabitants of the Land of Mountains?

In the central part of Russia, the attitude towards immigrants from Dagestan is, to put it mildly, ambiguous. And the reason for this, partly, lies in the national mentality. After all, what do residents of Russian cities most often say about Dagestanis? It is noted that they:

• behave aggressively towards the local population;
• do not respect or observe the traditions and morals of other people;
• form cells of the criminal world;
• they are not very willing to look for work, preferring to spend their time idle.

It is clear that all these stereotypes did not arise out of nowhere. But you shouldn’t lump everyone with the same brush. Today, thousands of people from the republic work for the benefit of Russia: teachers, doctors, scientists, artists, athletes, etc. Many Dagestanis in Moscow are adopting the local culture, honestly trying to gain a foothold in the new territory, and are ready to find employment and work. However, girls, having started relationships with young people from Dagestan, attribute “reluctance to work but have more money” almost as a feature of the national character. Paradoxical!

Another nuance of the mentality is the desire to prove that you are the luckiest, richest, and, as they say, cool. It’s not for nothing that they often joke: “If show-offs glowed, then there would forever be white nights in Dagestan.” For the sake of such competition, Dagestan men (usually young men) are ready to do anything. Not everyone likes such arrogance, not confirmed by real achievements. In some cases, their innate politeness can give way to rudeness towards the interlocutor, especially if he is not Caucasian.

We must not forget about another feature that is characteristic not only of immigrants from the Republic of Dagestan, but also of almost all Caucasians - clanism. The mountain way of life is so deeply “ingrained” into their genes that it sometimes cannot help but surprise people of other nationalities. This is evidenced by many jokes about Dagestanis, most of which, to be fair, apply to all Caucasians and often simply artificially replace one nationality with another.

True, clanism in many situations brings tangible benefits to the Dagestanis themselves. Nepotism and the desire to unite, especially in an alien environment, allow them to survive. Yes, the mountaineers have ambiguous traits in their character. Apparently, because of this, some bloggers post their appeals to fellow countrymen on the Internet.

But still, the majority of Dagestanis are good and hardworking people who were brought up in the best Caucasian traditions. And it is no coincidence that the Republic of Dagestan has been Russian for almost 150 years, becoming an important part of a large country and enriching it with its unique culture.

The peoples of Dagestan gave the world and the country great poets (Rasul Gamzatov, Fazu Aliyeva, etc.), scientists (for example, academician Abdusalam Guseinov - Director of the Institute of Philosophy of the Russian Academy of Sciences), more than 60 heroes of the Great Patriotic War (among them Abdulkhakim Ismailov, one of the first to hoist the banner Victory at the Reichstag), we can go on for a long time.

The local freestyle wrestling school is known throughout the world. One of the best wrestlers in history, three-time Olympic champion, the famous Buvaysar Saitiev, was born here. It was the judoists RD Mansur Isaev and Tagir Khaibulaev who brought Russia the first gold medals at the London Olympics in 2012.

Our excursion would not be complete without recalling folk crafts:

• jewelry from the goldsmiths of the village of Kubachi;
• daggers and knives of Kizlyar craftsmen;
• Untsukul artistic architecture (metal notching on wood);
• Balkhar is an ancient center of ceramic and clay art;
• Tabasaran carpets are recognized as the best in the world;

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

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0 Lens (Elvira) / Dagestanis do not value women

There is an opinion that for a Dagestani man, a woman is nothing. Her opinion does not play any importance, and that she must obey the man in EVERYTHING, obey him.

IS THIS THE TRUTH OR A REVIVAL OF THE PAST?

No, that's not true... Of course I'm talking about the general trend. and not about individual facts.

A woman is the mother of his children and therefore is always respected. It’s just that Dagestan women, as a rule, are smart enough, wise and well-mannered not to emphasize their important place in the family especially publicly. They will never challenge a man’s word or decision publicly. And for Russian women this is often quite acceptable phenomenon. which is perceived by them as...freedom.

What if we are talking not about family, but about relationships? just about relationships?

and if the girl is not Muslim, but Russian?

it all depends on the girl. She just needs to know at least a little about the customs of Dagestan if she is dating a Dagestan man.

Models of behavior are different and this must be taken into account. The fact is that for Russian girls the norm may not be perceived at all as they see it. Although a lot depends on the upbringing of the man

The author of this post thinks like everyone else. not oriental people. For me, a man in the family is the law!! dad is the law!! little brother is the law!! you need to learn to believe in your men, trust them, and subjugate them will only be a pleasure. although why obey?! not a good word, allowing a man to be above you is a pleasure!!

otherwise in Russia women complain that men don’t want to nail a nail in the house, so let the man be in charge and he will do everything himself!! but how to chat, the woman is the first, but how to work, she remembers who is the man in the house

Yeah, you made up a lot of laws, and especially the manner of your message said a lot about you. Well, you don’t look like a meek girl at all, respecting laws.

Long live the Dagestan Novodvorskaya))) just as crazy, and undeniably, impenetrably little intelligent))) stamp on stamp, absolute isolation from real life and a complete lack of thought)))))))))))) write Maryamushka, write . We will have fun here laughing at the next funny stupid things.

again a parade of templates and stamps.

And Russians are different and not all Dagestan men are noble and smart enough to happily obey them.

and indeed there are different family models

If a Dagestani man loves his woman, then she is everything to him. if not, then no one

I agree with_Lady_ (***): if he loves, she is everything to him and for her sake he will do anything and even against everyone.

Elvira, don’t listen to who says what. Does your man appreciate you? If yes, then be happy with him, and if not, then this is simply not your man, and it’s not that he’s a Dagestani, it’s just not your destiny.

And, in general, they treat women with respect, and Russians too, if the woman herself behaves with dignity.

But everything can be resolved. if there is a desire and a real feeling

All my Dagestani friends value their wives very much. And the further - the more. In most families, the woman dominates, but somehow unobtrusively. This does not harm the interests of the spouse. But when it comes to some important cardinal decisions, the first word belongs to the man.

A woman should not submit to anyone. What do the opinions of a man or the law of the brothers mean? what a medieval era. Both opinions are important in a family! Here are some statements:

1. There is no Decree in Nature that a woman should be tied only to the hearth! Truly, she is the Guardian Mother of the World. Therefore, there is not a single area in life where a man could reign undivided; it is this undivided reign of one Beginning that is the product of the dark era. Creativity is equally inherent in both Principles. In a man it was more clearly revealed only because a woman was deprived of the same education and the same opportunities to exercise her creative powers in a wide field.

2. There is no Decree in Nature that a woman should be tied only to the hearth! Truly, she is the Guardian Mother of the World. Therefore, there is not a single area in life where a man could reign undivided; it is this undivided reign of one Beginning that is the product of the dark era. Creativity is equally inherent in both Principles. In a man it was more clearly revealed only because a woman was deprived of the same education and the same opportunities to exercise her creative powers in a wide field.

3. A cynical attitude towards a woman, belittling and humiliating her is possible only among the peoples who are leaving.

4. It is in vain to think that now there is no legalized social slavery. And the most blatant of them is the slavery of thought and the slavery of women. Is it really possible that the whole significance of a woman should be reduced only to the role of mother, nurse, and entertainer of men? But what kind of low opinion does a man have of himself if his entertainer should be deprived of the highest mental development? But you cannot go against evolution, and we already know how dearly each such resistance costs humanity.

5. There is an ancient saying - “where women are revered and protected, [prosperity] reigns and the gods rejoice.”

6. I believe that a woman should be even more educated and cultured than a man, because it is she who lays the first concepts of statehood in her family.

7. Book statements are incorrect that all Religions and Teachings are full of judgments about the lower nature of women. All such judgments in them are precisely those distortions and additions that were later introduced by those asserting power out of self-interest and gross ignorance. The Great Founders of Religions and Teachings are truly innocent of this blatant ignorance. Let us take into account how many dishonest greedy hands these Teachings have passed through and over how many millennia!

8. Great is the cosmic justice! By humiliating a woman, a man humiliated himself! In this we must look for an explanation for the paucity of manifestation of male genius in our days.

9.My heart hurts so much for women, and especially seeing how many more women humiliate themselves and delay their evolution. Now is a heroic time and we need women ascetics in every sense and in every field.

10. I believe so much in women’s common sense, in women’s magnetism, in a woman’s heart and ability for selfless work. Let us not forget that a woman is commanded to save the world.

You can add a lot more to the statements of different people, but it will be of no use if a woman shifts responsibility to others. So Elvira, go for it. All in your hands!

Love Index: 1.47 (417/284)

Previously, I had no regard for the Dagestanis. Now, it’s the other way around: I love the Caucasian nations and their laws. I had a Dagestan guy in a sanatorium, he was so good and so were his friends. Don't generalize the Caucasian nations. There are bad people, but not bad peoples, I love Dagestanis and I don’t care what others say))

The Dougs are great, they are all friendly and do not divide. Although there are about 40 nations in Dagestan. We Vainakhs should learn to be as friendly as they are, because unlike them, we are one nation and one people! Dougs are handsome! Quite a few of them are real men! We Vainakhs respect real men, even if he is African or Chinese! You are our brothers, because you are, first of all, mumin, and because we have always lived side by side and helped each other in troubles, sacrificing ourselves! Stay like this always! And know that the Vainakhs (Chechens and Ingush) love you!

I am an Azerbaijani myself from Baku. I want to say that I really respect and love the Dagestan people. for the fact that, firstly, they are Muslims, like all Caucasian peoples live with their traditions, a very brave, worthy people who deserve only respect. and to those who write on the right column, I want to say don’t write nonsense. There is no bad nation, there are bad people. Respect to you my brothers Dagestanis.

I don’t like Dagestanis, I like specific people I know! I don’t like the nation, even though I am Dagestani myself! You cannot love a nation, there are scum of society, bastards everywhere! I don’t care what nationality a person is, the main thing is what kind of person he is! There are many good people, both Russians and Dagestanis! And in the next column everyone writes, here are the Dags, such and such, although some have never seen Dagestanis, who cannot distinguish a Tajik or Uzbek from a Dagestani. According to statistics, every 4th Russian does not know where Dagestan is located, and that it is a subject of the Russian Federation! They are watching this Jewish TV that is pitting us against each other for their own purposes! Don’t watch TV, go to Dagestan, it’s no more expensive than going to Turkey or drinking from Egypt! You will all see what kind of people, what kind of atmosphere, what kind of attitude! I have childhood friends, two brothers Vova and Pavel, from Makhachkala, wonderful guys, I’m glad that I know them! Look at the person and not at the nation, I repeat again, there are bastards everywhere!

I don’t know where to write), bad or good xs, I’ve never dealt with them in relays (and maybe I did, but I didn’t know that he was a dag), one acquaintance (I won’t go into details about who) works with them in Moscow the Dags and their brothers came out of their villages, white like Russians, that’s what the good guys say), I know in the media in what form I show them, yes there are some, but something is not pure here, it seems to me that everything is being greatly inflated, I myself am a little Nazi I didn’t stop when I saw what they were doing (from the media), then I somehow cooled down.

Vadius, I can say one thing - I hate such people! I can’t say why they behave this way. It seems to me that these dugs who beat passers-by are simply uneducated and morally damaged people))) I want to say to all Russians that you do not know our people, you do not know our traditions and virtues. You are deeply mistaken when you say that we are “uneducated, hairy and ill-mannered people.” This is wrong. I myself am a Dagestani, a Kumyk by nationality, and I have absolutely nothing against Russians! On the contrary, I really respect and love your people, and I have a lot of Russian friends))) Before, I didn’t even know that you (the Russians) had such a negative attitude towards us. And now, when I read the right column, I was very shocked. And if you are so sure that we are so bad, then go to Dagestan and you will see the opposite.

guys calm down huh!? How stupid most of you are, Russians! in order to force self-respect first of all, there is no need, for example, to insult, condemn behind one’s back, or go out in crowds into the streets and beat Asians, Caucasians, etc. this respect for such people will not increase the level of culture both in Russia and in the Caucasus, which is in decline, but there is no need to always look for extremes in everything, only in the Caucasus alone! You need to understand one thing - there are no bad nations, there are bad people! There are scum in every nation, guys!

I'm Russian myself. My guy is Dagestan (Lezgin), we’ve been dating for 3 years. I used to hate the Dags (according to rumors)... although I didn’t know them.. I respect them. They are very brave and decisive. But here, forgive me, they are RAGs, not men... Our Russian girls take a lot on themselves. they smoke and drink. At the age of 13 they sleep with just anyone...and in Dagestan, girls are more modest and smarter...our girls want equality...so Rasul (my boyfriend says) that if a girl is for equality...then let her join the army)) what am I with him I completely agree. Despite all this, I love my homeland

I know a Dagestani-Lak family, wonderful people. Calm, decent, able to stand up for themselves, with a sense of their own dignity. The head of the family is a dentist, a conscientious, calm, friendly person, supports the family, builds the future of the children. The upbringing is strict, but without shouting, without humiliation, without servants, children can do everything, they have their own responsibilities in the family. His patients adore him, his neighbors love and respect him. But there are fools everywhere, and there are many of them among Russians. Any decent Russian woman will envy the way of life of this family, because... They have all the material and household goods. The man decides the issues, and the woman is responsible for order and satiety in the house, raising children. They live economically, calmly, and don’t show off like ours. He can drink with his male neighbors, but everything in moderation and without consequences. The most interesting thing: if he plans to go “left,” he will first inform his wife about it.

I also have a young man from Dagestan, he is kind, appreciates me, loves me, and never allows anyone to offend me, they respect their other half. What difference does it make what nation? The main thing is that the person is good. And the Dagestanis are sometimes better than our Russian guys; if you look at ours, they are either always drunk or drug addicts (you definitely don’t want to connect your life with such people! I’m incredibly glad that there is “my Dagestani” in my life, and there’s no one else I won't change it.

There are plenty of freaks everywhere, as the saying goes, “There’s always a freak in a family.” Therefore, I don’t think it’s right to judge the entire nation by individuals; at the very least, it’s stupid. As for the right column, I would like to remind you that Dagestan is the Russian Federation and they are the same citizens of Russia. Guys, do it normally, it will be fine!))

I don’t like Dougs, but I also hate them. These people make me laugh, especially the young people. Whoever is not with us is below us and blah blah. It's a shame that some Armenians forget Kochari and dance Lezginka. Well, in general the mentality is not bad, I like that many show off (hee hee)

Indeed, there is something to love the Dags for and at the same time despise Russian whores. 1. For self-respect 2. For the ineradicable desire to defend this respect in front of others, while Russians simply do not consider it necessary to waste time on such “nonsense.” After all, whatever you say, Russians are a smarter nation, but unfortunately this is what harms us. 3. For an ADEQUATE (non-seriously consumerist) attitude towards Russian sluts, and at the same time a respectful attitude towards their women. Russian swine-sluts perceive the original Russian soulfulness and affectionateness as weakness “A man is a rag” I have always been disgusted by women who understand only animal strength. In Russia there are the majority of them, I personally convinced myself. They act well when you pretend to be a male, you have no intelligence, There is no sense of self-respect for animals alone. Apparently, real, sincere Russians no longer have a place in Russia among the bestial sluts, this is a fact.

Another advantage of the Dags is that they know how to make a Russian slut appreciate EVERY gesture, while the Russian Vanya will do like an elephant - and the Russian pig-whore won’t even notice it

Caucasian sluts are very much valued, they are in the ass - like going to their home, and forward - intact. Sorry for the details.

I am Russian, I live in the city of Lesozavodsk. I know a Dagestani, he is a Lezgin by nationality. I have known each other for a long time. He invited me to visit him in Dagestan, in the city of Derbent. I visited him for about a month, and I will say that hospitality is necessary learn from them. Very hospitable people, his family greeted me like family. And when communicating with his friends, I did not notice any hostility in my direction. Yes, of course, there are cattle among them, there are enough of them everywhere. There was a case that a couple of bulls they tried to attack me, like you lost it in Dagestan and all that. So this acquaintance whom I came to, and his brother gave these assholes a hard time, saying that I am a guest and no one dares to insult me. I came from there with good emotions and very happy, that I am friends with the Dagestani. They are true friends. You shouldn’t judge people harshly based on some individuals.

My God. so much pathos from the next column. This is where so much hatred comes from. Behind me are two marriages with Russian men and one marriage with a real Dagestan MAN. So, both of our Russian Vankas (I intentionally write with a small letter) are the most ordinary primitive males who did not want to work and at the same time wanted to have a lot of money and dreamed of millions, lying on the sofa with a bottle of vodka. And my current husband is a Dagestani, not only does he not drink, does not smoke, loves and knows how to work, but he also carries me in his arms. Over several years of living together, he has not said a single rude word, he has never hit me, but from ex-husbands I suffered beatings almost every day, but I’m generally silent about swearing. He doesn’t force me to stand at the stove 24 hours a day and doesn’t limit my freedom. I do ordinary housework and do it with pleasure for the man I love. and he appreciates it and pays me the same. I am wealthy from head to toe. And my child from my second marriage is the same. so hoo from hoo, we still have to look at this.)

There is no such nation as the Dagestanis. There are many nationalities in Dagestan - Tabasarans, Avars, Lezgins, Tats, Jews, Chechens, Laks, Jews, etc., all of them are Dagestanis. But in general, I treat them well. I have many relatives from Dagestan (Avars, Laks and Kumyks mostly), my great-grandmother is Avar, my best friends are Andian. Dagestanis know how to make friends and will never leave a friend in trouble. And in general they won’t leave you in trouble. Very brave and freedom-loving, especially Avars. However, all the peoples in the Caucasus are brave and freedom-loving, but the Dagestanis and Chechens are bolder and more freedom-loving than anyone else in the Caucasus.

Because I love one of them :)

How can you not love them!? They, unlike Russian boys, know how to treat girls! My boyfriend was Russian, he constantly smoked and drank in front of me! Then he called and said prostitute where are you. Then he called me names and stood up and Nurslan stood up for me, he drove him away and walked me home, I gave him my phone number, he called in the evening and offered to meet. He gave me such a bouquet of roses! Took me to a restaurant, took me for a ride in a car! Well, I gave it to him on the third date, so what. But he has more dignity than any Russian guy! I tell you this with responsibility! He also has a brother Hasan! Nurslan left when I stayed with Hasan! I had to give it to him too, but I even liked it! He is 32 years old, he knows how to satisfy a woman! But Russians only know how to drink, smoke and beat women! This is why I love Dagestanis!

Well, how can you not love Dagestanis and Caucasian men in general? Around the age of 15, I was a straight man, but then my childhood friend introduced me to Damir. Even at the first meeting, I realized that between us there was not just a spark, there were whole lightning flashes between us! Well, I found him on Mail.ru, added him as a friend, we talked for about a month. And after about a month and one week, it turned out that we were left alone near my house when we were about to go home. it was about 12 o’clock, and then everything happened: we looked into each other’s eyes for a long time, I looked into his black eyes, and he into my blue ones. Well. we kissed. It was as if I was blocked, we immediately went up to me and made love in the shower - it was wonderful! And since then I've been gay. And Damir left me the next week, but he can be understood. Dagestanis are wonderful and loving people!

Salaam Alaikum! Hello! I was born and have lived in Dagestan all my life. I am Russian by nationality. I am surrounded here by many people of other faiths and nations, but here we do not have any conflicts on this basis. My best friend is Chechen, I have known him since childhood, I respect my nation, but if I have to fight the Russians for the sake of my friend, I will do it. Dagestanis and Chechens differ from Russians in that they do not live for themselves; they help each other. Recently I was in Novosibirsk and didn’t meet more than one Dagestani there, and what I saw there amazed me: almost everyone drinks, I went out into the street in the evening and saw that every second person was walking with a bottle of beer. At the stadium I met only Uzbeks playing football. There were no Russian athletes there at all. And some people won’t give up their place in line to grandma, let alone a place on the bus. I am disappointed. I love Russia very much, but I cannot love the people I saw there. Change yourself so that you will be respected.

I am Russian. My husband is a Dagestani-Lezgin. I have no parents, and before I met him I led a riotous lifestyle - drinking, partying, clubs, friends - girlfriends. When we met, I was driving home from my next birthday drunk and cheerful. I didn’t even understand that he was not Russian. I flirted and offered to meet myself, after a week of dating, he forbade me to drink and go to clubs. We got married 1.5 years later. We are complete opposites: I’m a blue-eyed, short blonde, he’s a dark, tall brunette. I love him very much, he’s a wonderful, purposeful person, and now I’m writing this post and watching my happiness snort nearby. We don’t have children. , but at the beginning of the relationship, I decided to test him, stated that I was 2 months pregnant not from him, to which he replied that our parents gave us life, and the worse we are, we will grow up. Love and be loved.

Ismail. Avarets. Why did I let you go right away? After all, there was still one more day left. Ismail. Delicate and decisive. Ardent and timid. Gentle and persistent. Shy and shameless. Ismail. Your name is a song, your voice is music, your body is a dream. Why did I let you go right away? That's it now. I want only one thing: if you ever remember me, to be able to feel it. PS. I understand that this is not entirely on topic, but I no longer have the strength to keep it to myself. I want to believe that there are many worthy people among Dagestanis. I dedicate this song to all of them.

Anyone who criticizes the Dags was simply offended and humiliated by them because of his weakness and dishonesty. Button heroes sit here and write dirty tricks incognito. I am married to a Dagestani, he is a wonderful husband and father, he respects my family and friends. I see good attitude and help from his relatives.

I am Russian, I have been dating a Dagestani man for 1.5 years. I have always treated other nationalities with interest - faith, culture, traditions. I travel a lot, I can say one thing - everyone is individual and that’s what makes them interesting! Be it a creative Frenchman, a charismatic Spaniard or a temperamental horseman. Moreover, we are neighbors! Moreover, we are Russia, one country! What's the matter, guys? As for the Dagestani man specifically, my man keeps his promises, does not wag his tongue, for me he is support and support, including in material terms. I want to say that Dagestan humor is excellent, I always laugh until I cry, it is simple and kind. Dagestanis know how to laugh at themselves. They are optimists. I think everyone should be themselves. Don’t give in, don’t get angry, don’t tar everyone with the same brush. Every family has its black sheep. There will be both good and bad people. In this case, you need to understand people, not nationalities. Yes, there are families where they are against Russian girls - marry yours, period. But this is not the case for everyone.

Well, hate is a strong word, but there is hostility. Because not everyone from their nation is a normal, balanced person. Most of them do not value either the Russians or many other nations and they always get away with everything, this is proven by both the media and life. Such cases as in the Saratov gymnasium (where Caucasian students called their older supporters, put 5! children on their knees and forced them to shout Caucasus - power!) or the sensational Dag. wedding, as a punishment of 1000 rubles. What is this? And this is Lawlessness on our land. These are only the most famous cases; going into details you can find out much more facts. After this, the next question arises automatically - “Why love them?” If the Russians were a united, cultural people, then I think the government would not allow this. But, unfortunately, there are still drug addicts, alcoholics, whores and other trash here. The elite have no time to deal with our destiny; we can only admire how skillfully they sell everything. And the homeland becomes where the ass is warm.

I hate Dagestanis with every fiber of my soul. Before the army I treated them normally, but when I saw them as they were, I hated them fiercely. Separately, I would like to say about the girls who date them. Of course, I understand that there is not much to choose from among Russian guys lately. But in the army I myself witnessed how the Dagestanis talked about Russian girls, that they were all whores and only knew how to spread their legs, that their girls were still better. Dagestanis love only their people, they say that they respect strength and despise weakness. I support them in this. But when I see 4 Dagestanis beating 1 guy, what kind of conversation can there be about strength and dignity? One Dagestani will never get into a fight if he doesn’t have support. Dagestanis themselves incite ethnic hatred with their behavior, blaming others for it. I don’t know what they are trying to achieve and what it will lead to. If they want war, they will get it.

Russian March. Notes from a non-Russian person. “Without giving up, they shot back to the last bullet, and then blew themselves up and the enemy with grenades.” Sound familiar? This is how Russian soldiers fought in both recent wars in the Caucasus. Pushed to the limit, hardened by blood and anger, from the readiness to defend their land, Russian soldiers always fight like this. I know this for sure, because in Afghanistan I fought next to them, and even earlier, in other wars, my grandfather, a Tatar and a Muslim, fought next to them, and my father, a Tatar and a Muslim, because we ourselves, in our deepest essence, are exactly the same . Answer yourself, are the Russian people, their warriors ready to die for their beliefs, worthy of respect? The best representatives of their peoples, the color of the nation. People for whom their beliefs, their faith are stronger than the fear of death. We are already standing face to face, ready to kill. What for?

Russian March. “Don't flatter yourself. Russians will not kneel, they will not give up their land and will not become manure on this land. They will not become slaves. Do not judge the Russian people only by corrupt and intimidated officials. Don't you have your own corrupt bureaucrats? Do not think that the entire Russian people are like a shaking homeless alcoholic or drug addict. Don't you have your own drug addicts? Don’t think that the Russian people are like a pathetic prostitute that you have in every hole for a couple of bucks, or even for nothing. Do not judge Russian soldiers by the downtrodden and powerless boys who were drafted into the army and who, betrayed, abandoned to the mercy of fate by the command staff, meekly endure all the humiliations. The Russian people have already embarked on the path of a new awareness of their blood unity and the words have already been heard: “Rus. Territory of war. There is nowhere to retreat." Do not think that a corrupt, cowardly government that has lost touch with its people will last forever, it will be swept away. And then woe to those who are accustomed to consider Russians slaves!”

I am Russian! And I would like to ask the Dagestanis! If I wanted to choose a wife from the Caucasus, what nationality in the Caucasus has blue eyes and red hair?

I don’t like Dags and other nationalities. but I’m not saying that Russians are good. example: no matter how many times I climbed the contact, I observed the same picture. I won’t describe it, because everyone knows it. But among Russians, Ukrainians or Tatars you can find quite adequate profiles like - I study, I drink, I know how to do this (they give practical advice when contacted). no show-offs or “insiders”. So, we recently shared the algorithm for driving over: 1) running over; if the mission is failed, then proceed to the next one 2) come on “brother”; Well, if it’s this one, then 3) come to an agreement. their gorgeous girls are a separate issue. PS: being with them is impossible. brutal black stubble. facial features and bestial gaze corresponding to the stereotype.

The post does not apply to people of the older generation; they are, basically, normal, adequate people. I lived for 5 years in one of the settlements of KHMAO-YUGRA. Let me start with the fact that there is an incredible mix of all kinds of faiths and nationalities: Uzbeks, Tajiks, Armenians, Azerbaijanis, Kurds, Chechens, Tatars, and of course Dagestanis. Everyone lives quite peacefully, with the only exception being the Dags. More than once I witnessed how a crowd of Dags attacked and beat one. Russian women are divided into 2 categories: whores, and whores who pretend to be queens. If you liked a girl, they would besiege you until the bitter end, they might just put you in the car and that’s how they were. And it doesn’t matter whether she has a boyfriend or not, this is fresh meat. Many normal guys left forever under their pressure. AMAZINGly greyhound lawless people - that’s my opinion. I do not suffer from attacks of Nazism; my husband is Azerbaijani, a worthy, respected person. I never heard from him about my mother’s mother. It's a pity that this is so, but we ourselves are to blame.

There are probably good people among them, educated and cultured. But most are non-humans. They don't care about laws and believe that they are above everyone. When they are alone, they behave in all sorts of ways, but as a group they turn into cattle. One of the worst things is that they are taught with their mother’s milk to hate people with different faiths.

The sad thing is that Russians have a poorly developed sense of national unity, they are too kind and forgive everyone a lot. The bad thing is that the Russians allowed themselves to create a criminal Muslim enclave on their territory (CR DR Ingushetia) - if the Russian government continues to encourage this criminal lawlessness due to the permissiveness of the Caucasians, namely (Dags, Chechens, Ingush), then this may end in disaster, and then the enraged Russian bear will not be stopped, and this beast is very dangerous in its rage. The Russian authorities need to radically change their policy regarding these three little ones (Chechnya, Dagestan, Ingushetia) very proud, but absolutely worthless national republics. I don’t understand why the rest of Russia feeds and tolerates these wild, brutal peoples when they hate Russians at the genetic level. We need strength, will, power and order. Gentlemen, officials, you need to think with your head and work, and not just steal budget money while you hold power.

I don’t care about the Dags if they are located south of the Terek. Let them live as they want. I really hate dirty whores - inkwells, these scum really shouldn't exist in nature.

Recently I was driving a car, and a shabby seven began to drive away from the side of the road, seemingly without looking anywhere, right under my nose. Okay, I taxied out, I’m moving on calmly. A traffic light, the same seven, goes around everyone in the oncoming lane and begins to squeeze into a row, like “I overtook everyone, I’m the first one,” - again you appear in front of me, and so brazenly, waving your arms, shouting out the window (there were two of them in the car) you so and so what the fuck can't you see we turned on the turn signal. I answer them (also through the window) learn to drive first, then get behind the wheel, and away we go. They jump out of the car and wave their hands like brake, now we’ll educate you. I brake, calmly turning to the side of the road. They run up (I’m writing in continuous text without punctuation) Well, let’s talk about the goat, now we’ll stick you in the bend, we’ll ride the way we want. I’m not a wrestler, but I’m a wiry guy, the punching bag and the horizontal bar are my favorite equipment. In short, the Russians won. What surprised me was that several drivers stopped and came to my aid. Slavs, go in for sports and don’t be afraid of anyone. Together we will win.

I hate Dagestanis, this is not the case, of course, and there is no Dagestani nation. There are Avars, Tabasarans, Laks, Dargins, Kumyks, Lezgins. and many more. There are good people among them, but mostly they are idiots and illiterate monkeys, the women in the right column (especially Russians) are just fucked up. There are no words

Olya97, if the Dagestanis respected you, they would be alone with you, and the rest would even dare to think about sex with you. THEY FUCKED YOU BECAUSE THEY DID NOT HAVE ANY WHERE TO GO AND THEN LAUGHED YOU. XXXAAAAAAHHHH she fell for the roses. you disgrace the great Russian people. I fucked with Russians, so they didn’t let me sleep, and they have a big dick. There are big and small ones in every nation

I don’t argue that there are good people everywhere and their own shit is everywhere! but among this nation I have met few good ones! namely, that in the Army they are simply stupidly lazy and impudent to the point of unbearability! they want everything to be their way! I have a couple of Dagestani acquaintances, they are very cunning, arrogant and rotten people! Believe my experience! I dated a Dagestani woman for 2 months and then I got into a lot of problems! do not communicate with them! There are very few good ones in this nation!

Dagestanis - under this word is not some single nation united, but a kind of conglomerate of the most different peoples welded together. What is their peculiarity, why can Dagestan be called a territory with a unique population? In this article you will find answers to all these questions.

National composition of Dagestan

The conquest of the Caucasus was not easy for Russia. The mountaineers felt independent, were divided into small separate khanates, and the very concept of statehood was alien to them. Nevertheless, as a result, Dagestan still became part of Russia. And this became the reason for the further rapprochement of the Dagestan peoples and the Russian population.

Today, Dagestanis live peacefully with Russians, as well as with representatives of other nationalities. Moreover, interethnic marriages have become commonplace, which also strengthen national ties. However, often a Russian beauty’s feeling of inner freedom can be the reason that relationships go wrong.

It must be taken into account that the difference in mentality here is still huge. And what attracts a Dagestan man to a Russian woman outside of marriage can alert him when he begins to think about starting a family with her. In general, the relationship between Caucasian guys and Russian girls is a topic.

On the other hand, many Slavic girls have ambivalent attitudes towards Dagestanis. Features of the national character at a certain stage may not seem so important for the relationship. But when it comes to talking about the wedding, a woman begins to think and test her feelings for strength.

She understands that most often she will be forced to move among people with a completely different mentality and with different views on family life. Not everyone is ready to put up with this state of affairs. It is no coincidence that some researchers and psychologists claim that such marriages in 80-90% of cases end in divorce and complete severance of relationships.

However, there are many examples of how such interethnic marriages exist and at the same time grow stronger day by day. and a Russian girl can create a real union, provided that their feelings are able to overcome the difference in worldviews. Again, the same religion will be a big advantage (but not decisive).

If a Christian wife is ready to convert to Islam for the sake of love, this is already half the success. Such cases are not uncommon. But there are only a few examples to the contrary. Even a Muslim man who loves his Russian wife very much is unlikely to renounce his religion.

If a Slavic woman nevertheless decides to marry a representative of the mountains, she must understand that she will have to put up with not only many national traditions, but also with the way of life. Urban couples can still lead a completely secular lifestyle, but a strict patriarchy still reigns in mountain villages, and respect for elders is an integral feature of upbringing in Dagestan. In such conditions, the girl will have to give up a short skirt and a lot of makeup. But in such a family, children will know from birth that they are obliged to honor their father and mother.

What are they like - the modern inhabitants of the Land of Mountains?

In the central part of Russia, the attitude towards immigrants from Dagestan is, to put it mildly, ambiguous. And the reason for this, partly, lies in the national mentality. After all, what do residents of Russian cities most often say about Dagestanis? It is noted that they:

• behave aggressively towards the local population;
• do not respect or observe the traditions and morals of other people;
• form cells of the criminal world;
• they are not very willing to look for work, preferring to spend their time idle.

It is clear that all these stereotypes did not arise out of nowhere. But you shouldn’t lump everyone with the same brush. Today, thousands of people from the republic work for the benefit of Russia: teachers, doctors, scientists, artists, athletes, etc. Many Dagestanis in Moscow are adopting the local culture, honestly trying to gain a foothold in the new territory, and are ready to find employment and work. However, girls, having started relationships with young people from Dagestan, attribute “reluctance to work but have more money” almost as a feature of the national character. Paradoxical!

Another nuance of the mentality is the desire to prove that you are the luckiest, richest, and, as they say, cool. It’s not for nothing that they often joke: “If show-offs glowed, then there would forever be white nights in Dagestan.” For the sake of such competition, Dagestan men (usually young men) are ready to do anything. Not everyone likes such arrogance, not confirmed by real achievements. In some cases, their innate politeness can give way to rudeness towards the interlocutor, especially if he is not Caucasian.

We must not forget about another feature that is characteristic not only of immigrants from the Republic of Dagestan, but also of almost all Caucasians - clanism. The mountain way of life is so deeply “ingrained” into their genes that it sometimes cannot help but surprise people of other nationalities. This is evidenced by many jokes about Dagestanis, most of which, to be fair, apply to all Caucasians and often simply artificially replace one nationality with another.

True, clanism in many situations brings tangible benefits to the Dagestanis themselves. Nepotism and the desire to unite, especially in an alien environment, allow them to survive. Yes, the mountaineers have ambiguous traits in their character. Apparently, because of this, some bloggers post their appeals to fellow countrymen on the Internet.

But still, the majority of Dagestanis are good and hardworking people who were brought up in the best way. And it is no coincidence that the Republic of Dagestan has been Russian for almost 150 years, becoming an important part of a large country and enriching it with its unique culture.

The peoples of Dagestan gave the world and the country great poets (Faza Aliyev, etc.), scientists (for example, academician Abdusalam Huseynov - Director of the Institute of Philosophy of the Russian Academy of Sciences), more than 60 heroes of the Great Patriotic War (among them, one of the first to hoist the Victory Banner on the Reichstag) , you can continue for a long time.

The local freestyle wrestling school is known throughout the world. One of the best wrestlers in history, a three-time Olympic champion - the famous one - was born here. It was the judoists RD Mansur Isaev and Tagir Khaibulaev who brought Russia the first gold medals at the London Olympics in 2012.

Our excursion would not be complete without recalling folk crafts:

• goldsmiths of the village of Kubachi;
• daggers and knives of Kizlyar craftsmen;
• Untsukul artistic architecture (metal notching on wood);
• Balkhar is an ancient center of ceramic and clay art;
• – recognized as the best in the world;

My opinion is subjective and personal, the conclusions are drawn on the basis of what I saw and heard during my marriage to a Dagestani man, and are presented exclusively from a female point of view. I myself am Tatar, I live and work in Moscow. Head covering and modest clothing are mandatory for me, as in principle for all Muslim girls. When we met my future husband, a Dagestani, he talked about Islam, read prayers, and often remembered the Almighty, this affected my choice. I was sincerely happy, thanking Allah for the fact that I had met my man, whom both the covering of his head and the absence of bare parts of the body not only attracted, but, as it seemed to me, admired.

We decided to get married. We went to the mosque, where the nikkah was read, after which my husband safely moved into my apartment. From that moment on, I got the opportunity to learn more about him and his family circle, since previously I had only seen Caucasians in movies and only from the positive side.

I won’t say anything, their hospitality and respect for elders pleased me, but in everything else - alas. Especially regarding show-offs - this is something special, it even seems to me that it is inherent in their genetic level. It doesn’t matter how, it doesn’t matter at whose expense and at what cost, but each of them believed that they simply had to be cooler than the other. At the same time, they themselves are deeply confident in their superiority over others, even without having anything, neither education, nor work... NOTHING! They will sit, without a constant source of income, and an intermittent one too, drinking beer and smoking “noble grass”, not having a penny of money, but even in front of each other, despite the fact that they have known each other for many, many years, from one aul, village and collective farm, they still try to show those qualities and material benefits that are not even available. They showed off to each other like little children.

And their desire to look presentable? It is something! Having one old, worn, washed-out shirt, a suit with a shiny patina and a tattered lining, often one for everyone, without any desire to work for their own well-being, being content with what they have out of laziness, just not to work, they smoothed him to such an extent that he was already glowing and was for them an indicator of prosperity, self-importance and unshakable evidence that he was not a simple “hard worker”, but at least a “boss” and not of an average level, but much higher.

I was able to verify that the ability to “speak” for the sake of “speaking” i.e. word for word's sake, and not word for deed's sake, this is also an integral part of their genetics. They say EVERYTHING and a lot, I would say: “Too much text,” but the conversation usually doesn’t go further. They could talk about the need to do something in order to achieve certain levels and heights, they boldly made promises to each other “to find out tomorrow; work on the issue tomorrow; meet tomorrow and connect the right people,” etc., but, as a rule, tomorrow no one did anything, continuing to lie on the couch waiting for the refrigerator to be filled with food, and for the house to have money for much-needed cafes and eateries, where you can sit “over a cup of tea”...

Regarding their fulfillment of the duties of a husband, to whom the Almighty has entrusted each specific woman (in this paragraph I do not touch on the topic of sex, they are “always and please”): understanding that the family must be supported, take care of the availability of food or at least money for them There is basically no purchase. As well as the understanding that the wife has a need for clothes, and multi-seasonal ones. Any conversation on this topic is abruptly stopped with the phrase “everything will happen.” When asked when this event will happen, the answer is no less categorical: “Leave me alone with your whims, you’re already tired of it.” At the same time, there is always money for a “cup of tea”, noble and much-loved grass and the 33rd pair of shoes with an elongated and pointed toe. I'm not even talking about the fact that in addition to basic duties, every Muslim, and Dagestanis very strongly and loudly declare their unshakable religiosity, is simply obliged to treat his wife well, take care of her inner peace, etc. Often at home all you hear is “rest, in short,” “stop this ridiculous talk,” etc., often in order to avoid discussing really important issues that shape the future relationship of the spouses.

Now regarding fidelity. It is, of course, wonderful that the majority of those Dagestanis with whom I was lucky enough to meet firmly adhere to the principle: “betrayal is a sin, I didn’t find myself in a garbage dump and it’s better to be alone than with just anyone,” the last phrase always brought me confused about the fact that, apparently, they don’t meet anyone except “just anyone” on their life’s path, and therefore it is necessary to think about expanding the territories they visit and be more careful in choosing friends. Moreover, often, arriving in the capital of our Motherland, most Dagestan eagles are already firmly and firmly connected by marriage bonds, strengthened by more than one child. Despite the presence of spouses entrusted to them, when they come to earn money, for some reason they too quickly forget why they came and limit themselves to the occupation of local girls, and do not disdain anything or anyone.

For example, when we were walking down the street with my husband and his fellow countrymen, they very loudly discussed the girls passing by, whose skirts were at waist level, and whose chest was not covered in any way, pathetically spat in her wake, shouting insulting expressions, but at the same time time, each of them, having learned to randomly roll his eyes, during the time until his spit reached the ground, managed to “grope at the level of the fundus” everything that was not covered. And if he was lucky, he managed to “get” the phone number of such a “goddess” and then starved her out, spending the last of her money on SMS messages in which she exalted her beauty to such heights that, in principle, only birds can fly to. Moreover, they perceived it as a “fun”, boasting to each other at home and sometimes reading out loud the messages of these, as they called them, “Russian hens”.

Everyone is registered on dating sites, even on the dirtiest mobile chats, the essence of which boils down to sending photographs of various parts of the body, both women and men, with a request to “take a photo and send the breasts from the right angle,” discussing problems of frigidity and sexual intimacy with a partner, etc. At the same time, none of them paid attention to the fact that girls from both Dagestan and the Caucasus as a whole are also registered on these sites, taking no less active part in discussions of such topics. The men were in no way embarrassed that it turned out that he himself was spoiling his own nation, in the person of that Dagestan girl who sent him a photo of her naked figure. When I asked if they were sure that it was not his wife who was communicating with him under a different name, they “exploded” and started beating their chests, convincing me that THEIR girls were decent and they shouldn’t just “hang out” on such sites they can, but the names “Heda, Zalina, Madina, Pati, etc.” these are fictitious, and the indication of such cities as Makhachkala, Kizlyar, etc. does not mean that this is true.

Also, my observation showed that these men consider it their sacred duty to brighten up the loneliness of ALL girls, with the obligatory invitation of the latter to a cafe and an equally obligatory demonstration performance, expressed in the performance of the national dance “Lezginka”. Moreover, I completely agree with the author of the article, they dance the Lezghinka always and everywhere, right up to the metro stations, it starts alone, to the noisy applause of the fellow countrymen present, and later this develops into a crowd of men waving their arms and legs, and if you’re lucky, then to hooting by accident women who found themselves at the place of dance, without thinking at all about the appropriateness of the action taking place...

I could go on for a long time describing those actions or inactions that I directly witnessed during the period of my life with my ex-husband, but I will limit myself to what has been said and summarize: the people I knew are distinguished by: 1) Deceitfulness, and sometimes it seemed to me that they were lying all the time and in everything, just like that, without even thinking, just to embellish oneself, wishful thinking, not to be ridiculed, to appear “cool,” etc.; 2) Show-off - this is the case, apparently the majority simply have nothing to be proud of, nothing has been achieved, nothing has been gained, and there is no desire to gain gain, but they really want respect and honor; 3) Laziness - they are extremely lazy, working is for Tajiks and Uzbeks, and they can only lead, and also do not hesitate to live on the support of women, if they are lucky, then they are not very old; 4) Debauchery - it feels like they were kept for a long time in a dark and cold hole called their native village and home, having escaped from there, both men and women simply go crazy, confusing the shores and go to great lengths to satisfy their sexual desires. interests, often without disdaining anything; 5) Extremely low requirements for the level and quality of relationships between spouses, a complete lack of basic respect and care, and on both sides, their relationship can more be called consumer; 6) HUGE self-conceit and very high self-importance, which does not have the slightest reason or reason for this; 7) Drug addiction to herbs of various origins; 8) Increased false religiosity, which can be characterized by the phrase: “Muslims have one hand on the Koran, the other on the glass.” When they drink too much beer and smoke all sorts of nonsense, the conversation inevitably turns to Islam, and this is accompanied by additional infusions of alcohol and the lighting of a “peace pipe” made from a plastic bottle.

There are, of course, decent and decent people among the Dagestanis, and, fortunately, there are many of them, but they are not noticeable due to moderation, and young people try to “keep up with the times,” gradually losing those personal qualities and features of the national culture for which at all times the Caucasus has been praised.